on his last one we found out he has to have back surgery later on in life i am a strong mother but, the last one he had he was in a body cast it was so hard taking care of him i cryed a lot and well i was wondering if you got any words to make me stronger for his next surgery's because i am feeling not so strong anymore i just tired a lot and can't bare to think of going through it again. he also don't walk, talk, see....such a pretty little boy too. i watch a program on TV today and it made me so sad about a husband and wife raising 19 handicap kids and one died at a young age so you guessed it once again tears flow down my face and i have a feeling i can not explain but it is a sad feeling and thoughts run through my mind of how bad it was in that body cast and well i feel like I am over welmth with sadness. thanks.....for any words....a sad mother.....
2007-12-15 05:38:38 · 7 answers · asked by daisy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he has to have them of course i would not do it if i could........
2007-12-15 05:49:39 · update #1
ok my tears has stopped now i hate crying but needed to i guess...thanks...
2007-12-15 05:57:36 · update #2
ps i don't cry in front of people or my son but in private....thanks......
2007-12-15 05:58:48 · update #3
this is my hobby and my questions may not make since to you guys but, to me they are just questions.....
2007-12-15 06:00:45 · update #4
My husband has cp and its a tough thing to deal with some times. He can walk but he has problems with other things like i have to help him get dressed in the morning some times it breaks my heart to see him struggle but you have to remember that this sadness isnt fair to them they just want to be happy and live like everyone else. Take pride in your sons strength and he will make it through this eventually
2007-12-15 05:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by sarah W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you and your son. Know that you are both special angels on this earth brought here to make people aware and to teach compassion. I have worked with physically and mentally disabled children, and at the end of the work day I was completely drained in every aspect. All I could think about was how in the world so many parents were doing the same thing I do 24/7, 365 days per year. God bless you for all that you do, and remember to pray to him for the strength you'll need to keep going.
Have you considered getting some help with your little boy? There are nurse assistants and others specially qualified to help you take care of him, and medical insurance should help cover the expenses. Is it possible for a family member or close friend to stay with him for a couple of hours here and there so you can have a break and take a little time for yourself? Reach out to those that are close to you and to your community. If I were closer, I would be there helping you! Please don't neglect yourself or your spirit---you need to keep your strength for yourself and your son, but you don't need to do it on your own.
2007-12-15 05:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've looked at your other questions and you either need another hobby or you need some serious help. You seem to have alot of drama you are living instead of living your life. We all have burdens, I have to wonder why you think yours are more important than your child's? If you are at the end of your rope you aren't going to do anyone any good. Get some serious counseling so you can learn to cope effectively with the choices in life that you have made. Good luck to you.
2007-12-15 05:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have any words to make you feel stronger. Nobody can find the right word from the dictionary for your sadness, because I know there's no word can describe how painful you are now. Cry if you want to, because you have all the right to do so.
I'll be praying for you and your family. Take care. :(
2007-12-15 05:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by lylie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If these surgery's aren't life threating then why are u putting him through them? If he has to have them then I understand. All u can do is take one day at a time.Try not to over think it.Keep busy and pray. You would be amaze at how strong we really are.I'm a single mom and I wish u all the luck in the world. We are woman hear us ROAR!
2007-12-15 05:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU!
Your also very tired honey! Are there freinds or family who can come in and give you a well needed break? Let you get away for a couple days and breathe? IF you lived my me, I'd help and give the well deserved break you need. Anywhere near SD? :-)
Prayers are with you. But get a break. Your tired also hurting.
2007-12-15 05:50:48 · answer #6 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon.. You need to find some out side support. YOu need to take care of yourself physically and mentally or you aren't going to be any good for that little angel you are caring for. Your path is a terribly hard one and we all need help in our lives so go and get yourself some. My thoughts are with you and your family. Take care.... crone.
2007-12-15 05:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋