Do you trust your spouse 100%? What makes you trust / not trust them?
2007-12-15 05:28:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nope, sure don't...I wish I did!
2007-12-15 06:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by ncgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I trust my wife completely. Mostly because she doesn't really like men. She loves me though. She would be more likely to experiment with another female but even that wouldn't happen unless I was there. I know because she had a perfect opportunity awhile back and she said she just couldn't do it because it would have felt like cheating.
I think if you're with the right person and you're both mature and communicate, the trust just naturally evolves. Some people stray because they want wild experiences that give them a "rush." In reality, their spouse would probably be willing to do some wild things if the lines of communication were open. For some reason it's easier for a guy to cheat than to say, "Honey, would you wear a nurse's outfit and spank me?"
2007-12-15 05:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's possible 2 get hurt, so I do not trust any1 100%. U can trust a person but 2 say 100% then they hurt u, that's gonna b alot of hurt!!! I just take it a day at a time, and deal with things as they come, then I know wot I can trust that person with, eg, money, cheating, loyalty etc.
2007-12-15 05:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to trust my wife about everything 100% until I caught her cheating. The cheating I think has ended, but you never know, they only learn how to not get caught. My experience has had a detrimental effect on loyalty, faith and trust. I have no trust, so I have no marriage, not one worth it anymore. I should have tossed her to the curb that day. I think that would have had the best effect in rebuilding the marriage instead of always wondering if she is being honest. I can accept her infidelity to a point. It got beyond that point and I'm here with her with nothing worth anything. 5 years of unhappieness and wondering is not worth it. I would have been happier without her.
2007-12-15 10:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by Freddy123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want someone you can trust 100% get a dog. The second you said "I DO" your loving relationship was destroyed. Some people realize it in weeks, other who lie to themselves realize it in years. You are starting to realize it NOW. Here are the facts of life you obviously have not learned yet:
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me if you want to hear the truth. You can ask me anything. I don't lie unlike the other answers you will get.
2007-12-15 08:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I Trust him 100 %. Reason: He was raised by a wonderful Mother & Father With Great Morals and Integrity!!! He's a wonderful Man, and loves And Trusts me unconditionally, 100%
2007-12-15 05:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by casper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am realistic about trust. I would trust him with my life and our children but as far as faithfulness goes, well there has been times in our 31 year marriage when I wasn't very loveable and living with me was very hard. He stayed and I admire his strength that it took for him to stay. He has never given me cause to question his loyality and faithfulness but sometimes I do wonder. Now I am sure he is faithful but there have been times when the thought crossed my mind from nowhere. I don't believe that human beings are a 100% anything.
2007-12-15 05:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do trust him 100% because he has never given me a reason not to. I know it may be hard to imagine, but he always does exactly what he says he is going to do, and he has proved beyond a shadow of a doubt that he can be relied upon at all times. Even at times when I have doubted him out of my own insecurities, he has proved me wrong. I am very lucky.
2007-12-15 05:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fully? Are you asking them to assume everything FOR you? Think, dream and speak for you as well? I don't even trust ME 100% of the time - especially during the holidays when working extra jobs and not getting a full-night's sleep. My brains are mush sometimes!
2007-12-15 05:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by roadrunner 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't fully trust anyone but myself.
I did trust someone once a long time ago and was let down, therefore that was the end of that experiment.
2007-12-15 05:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
absolutely!! 100% without a doubt in my mind. i met the man of my dreams, and from the first day i met him we have based the relationship on trust. it is the threshold of which we built the relationship on. IT IS A GUT INSTINCT FROM THE VERY BEGINNING - i feel if you question anything-than there is a TRUST issue.
i hate to brag - but i have found one of the very few PHENOMENAL men on the planet. if i could clone him - i would be rich.
my best advice would be to demand such things as trust, demand it from your partner and DO NOT SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS.
2007-12-15 05:46:53 · answer #11 · answered by litlbigdg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋