November 2006 i was being stalked my the guy that opened my bank acount.
He was going into my files and got my phone number my adrdress my works.
He followed me to a bar after work, started to talk to me and then placed date rape drugs in my drink.
I blacked out and woke up on his bed in sever pain and had to fight him off me.
It has now been just over a year and i got the suppina to testify in court. Hi trial is next month and i am so very afraid to see him.
He gave me a std and i can not ever have a child.
iI am just looking for some advice in court i feel like i will be so afraid that my words will not make sence or that i will just freze and or that i will forget what happened.
I a just looking for pep me up and make me strog as i have also never been to court before.
I got him fired from his accounting job because they found out that he was looking in my files for non banking reasons.
I am just so scared.
Thanks and Merry Christmas everyone.
2007-12-15 05:08:03 · 6 answers · asked by LUBA P 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Some guys are simply animals. Animals that have rabies and we all know what we do to animals that have rabies. We put them down.
First of all, you done nothing wrong, NOTHING.
You go into that court room and hold your head high..That animal will be the one hanging his head. Tell the truth no matter what the cost. The jury will understand that you are nervous but guess what ? The jury is nervous too, b/c they are in the courtroom and it's unfamiliar territory for them as well.
They will see right through that animal. They will watch his expressions and see the guilt in his face, his body movement, and his eyes! At the end of the day, Justice should prevail and you get to start your life over..fresh and clean, especially knowing he is going to spend several years behind bars for taking something that wasn't his.
When I walk into a place like that, I think to myself...I pay taxes religiously and this building belongs to me too. Takes the edge off of my nervousness. Tell the world your story and don't be ashamed. Other people in life may need your guidance in the future since you've been there....Now you can help by understanding and communicating with the victims of this kind of assault.
Good Luck with everything and don't worry about court, I have been a juror on similar cases and I alway's had respect for the victim and I'm sure alot of people including the judge, prosecutor, family members and jurors will have all the respect in the world for you and what you have to say.
2007-12-15 05:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Knowe Nuthing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to contact the police and go to the hospital and get a complete exam including a rape kit test. You should consider pressing felony assault charges against this man that done this cruel act upon you.
You should look into getting a Personal Protection Order or a restraining order against this man. Frankly, this man should be in prison that done this nonsense to you.
I understand that it must be hard for you to discuss with others that you were raped. But, it's important to alert the police so this guy does not victimize another person.
Good Luck to you
2007-12-15 06:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 09:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by venturino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's awful. I'm so sorry for you and God bless!
I wish you strenghth and poise to put this filth behind bars for a long time so he can't do this to anyone else!
Just try to relax and be honest.
Best of luck.
2007-12-15 05:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by doug4jets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...jus tell the truth and you won't get caught up...obviously ur testifying and not in the defense chair-he is-so-don't worry...be happy...if ur wrong in some way...the feeling of deceipt won't go away...so-do the best you can...
2007-12-15 05:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really sounds serious ... I almost take it as a bluff ... you should figure out what did that guy really wanted.
2007-12-15 05:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by Andrew177 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋