There is alway two sides to every story How .would you be to sit there and judge one person before knowing the other persons views on the situation, becouse there seems to be alot of it going on around here .you people who have already brought it this with out any clue to what may be some think so differant then what you have be told ,to me you are insulting your own intelligence so give the other person a break even if you domt know there side of the story ...so for any intelligent answers to this question i would love to hear them :0)
2007-12-15 05:05:49 · 4 answers · asked by this account is no longer in use 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you are so right but the thing is it me so i have to try and be a member of thie site and these small mided people arnt helping .it has nothink to do with any one eles so i wish they would takea hike & as jelf611 has said theyhave nothink better to do than to cause bitterness .these girls need to grow up but all they do is buy into somthink that has nothink to do with then and the feeder of the problem needs to shut up & grow up play the poor me
2007-12-15 07:33:24 · update #1
Usually personal experience gives us our opinions, and when we show extreme like or dislike for a specific view/belief it is based on our unique make-up of past experiences. There are always antagonistic types who play on other's strong beliefs to try to stir up an issue, and often it seems like they have no idea what the whole picture is, nor do they care. Their motive is to see how much trouble they can cause.
2007-12-15 06:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine Buttercup 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all alot of times those choosing sides have no buisness having opions or getting involved at all as most of the time it has nothing to do with them. Many times people have a lack of empathy which causes them to only see part of a situation and base an opinion prior to getting all the facts. Quite frankly if it dosnt involve you directly than worry about your own affairs instead of the affairs of those around you.
2007-12-15 13:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is so true, i coach 4-5th garde basketball...After our win tuesday night, parents from the other team said we were playing to ruff.....Made comments like, we were playing football and hockey...Everyone from our team, parents included....thought the other team was just as bad or worse.
I never said a word...It looked like both teams were the same.
I never argued with anyone, nor did i agree....I took what i thought and went on with my biz. Most people have their mind made up before they see or hear anything....Ready to judge before it begins
2007-12-15 13:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by Speedstar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people take only one side because they don't stop to think of all ramifications of the side they've chosen...and the side they've chosen against!
I am a 'devil's advocate'...I will purposely see the side I'm against...that way has led me to, thankfully, change a few decisions I was about to make!
Elysabeth...poemhunter
2007-12-15 13:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by Elysabeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋