you are single and you get jelous when you see couple holding each other in a way that they are showing off and telling you something?.it didn't bothered me,but there is certain actins in that relationship makes me tick am not sure that is love....but why do we feel that way?is that normal or i m just weird?
2007-12-15 00:45:22 · 10 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
some couple doesnt pissed me offwhen it is actually based on real love but not the ones who is trying to insult me...in a way why should they do this to me?
2007-12-15 01:04:21 · update #1
You would like to experience what they have.
2007-12-15 01:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like jealousy to me. I think most people just can't stand to be around fakes. It sounds like your inner Sherlock Holmes wants to expose them. Like you said real loving couples don't bother you and it's been my experience that they don't flaunt their relationship because they're confident with their bond. What I think you should do is let Karma do it's thing and you just sit back and let them self destruct...trust me it'll happen. Jealousy is wanting what someone else has for yourself...you don't want a fake relationship.
2007-12-15 01:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by Yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get jealous..instead .. learn to be glad other people have found each other. Hope that their relationship remains unviolated by backstabbing and that they are blessed by a long and happy marriage.. You will feel better ...even if they are weird.. YOU will feel better because you will have changed your point of view away from a negative one.
2007-12-15 00:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because being alone stinks, and the things we see that bother us the most are the things we'd secretly rather be experiencing for ourselves. Just turn and walk away until your chance comes.Everyone deserves to enjoy their time in the spotlight.
2007-12-15 00:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be happy for those couples you see. Jealousy is a nasty thing. Your day will come. Sooner than you think. And yes it is normal to feel that way...Hang in there.
2007-12-15 01:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is just a bit of envy on your part seeing couples together who are happy and it makes you feel lonely and wish you had that yourself. It is very normal to feel that way.
2007-12-15 01:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it just be happy you are single. i have been married for 3 years to a man that hurts everyday. I want to divorce him but I need to get on my feet first. I have try everything to work and I'm. I'm always sad and miserable. So be happy you are single and enjoy your life.
2007-12-15 00:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by LivingMyLife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are both instinctively and intrinsically social beings, so prolonged periods of isolation may lead to feeling alone or loneliness. Simply put, loneliness is a warning signal. Hunger warns you that you need food. Loneliness warns you that you need companionship, closeness, intimacy. We need food to function well. Likewise, we need companionship to feel well.
2007-12-15 01:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very normal, because you want that for yourself in your own relationship. but do not learn to hate it, or get mad when you see others doing it, if you do, when you get a chance to do the same you will withdraw from it putting stress in your own relationship
2007-12-15 01:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by john d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't let **** like that bother me. They may act that way in public but you can bet they act differently when they're home and have no witnessess around to see them fight.
2007-12-15 01:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋