Does this means my husband hate me? I'm I a bad person to him?
2007-12-15 00:38:44 · 20 answers · asked by LivingMyLife 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He has NO Respect for You. No, that doesn't make YOU a bad person. Start by talking to him. Tell him Not to Ever Call you names again. If he continues, then you need to get rid of him !!! Good Luck !!!
2007-12-15 06:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by casper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not a bad person to him, no at all!!!
He is an abuser, and he has no respect for you.
Show him you are not going to take this anymore and leave him, honey he is an abuser, and unless you take the first step and walk out that door and leave him then he will keep doing this to you, you do not deserve this.
Show him you have a backbone and leave him!!!!
You are beautiful, you are strong, and you do not need the likes of him making you think that you are a bad person!!!
You are not!!!!!!!
Look in the mirror, and see what a beautiful strong person you are, stand up tall, and get on those walking boots and take the first "step" and just keep walking!!!
The first step will seem hard, but honey, the second, the third, and the forth, and so on will be so much easier.
Leave him!!!!
Let him treat and manipulate someone else into them thinking they are worthless, honey, you are NOT!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-15 08:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
AKA its probably because he is an ungreatful prick, unless there is more to the story
I always ask myself this: why is it when a man is in a bar drunk and a pretty girl walks by and he yells out something like,"Hey BABY!" or something as equally trashy, and she NICELY tells him she is not interested, he calls her a trashy ***** or a wh0re? 10 seconds ago she was attractive and now she's a hooker. I cant explain it
2007-12-15 11:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, are you one? I would never call a woman a Bit*h unless she had proven to me that she was one. If I call a woman a Bit*h, you can bet your last dollar that she is. the guy obviously has some problems or you may not be what or who he wants in life and he's trying to make it easier to break up with you by making you mad enough to drop him and then he doesn't have to go through the ordeal of breaking up with you. Easy way out!
2007-12-15 08:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by golden rider 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ive never been with a guy who hasnt called me a b*tch and im always a good, supportive girlfriend. men can be *ssholes sometimes. i guess its the first thing they think of when they want to insult us. he doesnt hate you and youre not a bad person to him either. dont let him make you feel that way about yourself. youre better than that.
2007-12-15 08:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
No, it more likely means he was brought up in an environment where he heard that a lot directed towards women when they displeased someone. It shouldn't happen, and it shouldn't be said, but he probably hasn't thought that all the way through yet.
* I'm back...the sad thing is, that lady above me said she's never been in a relationship when she wasn't called one. I hope you discover that's changing, and that we're improving.
2007-12-15 08:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
name calling should never be done even if you are having a bad fight. What I would do is avoid all conflict for a while with him, If you have been nagging at all you need to stop, taking away the fuel to the fire will stop his name calling,
2007-12-15 09:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by john d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Captain S. It's up to us, who we really are as opposed to who others may be leading us to believe that we are. We need to remember that as we strive to overcome petty differences that threaten our relationships, it's how we resolve a problem that may be even more important than the problem itself. Compromise, communication and mutual respect are essential. We must be willing to work together to work things out.
2007-12-15 08:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Beautiful, Intelligent, Talented. Charming, I forget what the H stands for. Don't let it get you down.
2007-12-15 08:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by rlstaehle 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you chose a bad boy. You should choose a man on his character not on attraction. Good girls are attracted to bad boys.
2007-12-15 09:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by heartsarebad 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋