how can i change my approach towards women and learn to respect them instead of viewing them as a sexual object. Am i different or all men are like me
2007-12-14 23:23:36 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
If you want to have a future with women, then amend your views on them. Contemplate on the word "respect." It is only a 7 letter word, but it will take you a long way.
And stop being so damn sarcastic about women.
Just because you have one rotten egg in the basket, doesn't mean all the other eggs are also putrid. Same goes for men.
And to answer your Q, yes, you are different.
Not all men reason and comport themselves like you.
Additional:
It is not yet too late Oz. There is still hope.
2007-12-16 04:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Asian Cutie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women aren't mere sexual objects. They are our mothers and sisters who support us, raise us and above all nurture our needs. Women today have progressed in several fields and are part of every major occupation in the world. As wildlife rersearchers, scietists, doctors, managers and policewomen, they have become the centre of attention. Therefore, if you see and treat women as sexual objects and nothing morte than that, what makes you think if that's the right way to treat women? Are you not understanding towards women and their important roles in modern societies.
If they are models or porn stars, even then they are trying to earn a livelihood. It is not that they want men to perceive them as sexual objects but as important examples for men. Say for example, if a man cannot be the first to discover the cure for cancer and that a woman comes out with the first cure, who's the winner? Of course, its a woman and then what makes that certain is another question. However, women's abundant of knowledgable wealth makes them successful achievers. This has indeed comprehended towards the development of children, the needy through education and sensitivity, which are just some of the facets men can learn from women.
In this way, you should have just an answer as to why and how you should respect women for the people they are in today's contemporary environment.
2007-12-14 23:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by AQUARIUS 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was almost the same as you, then i woke up and realized that i will be alone forever and i grew up. Also i met the woman of my dreams who is a filipina. I think as men in American society, it is easy to treat women as objects because of Hollywood, the media, and the endless supply of porn on the internet. American women are opportunistic and money hungry. American men are arrogant and don't know how to treat women. There is a gender war in this country that i think is ruining us. So if you learn to look past all this crap in our society, maybe you can solve your problem.
2007-12-14 23:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by george zip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you wonder why your wife is cold toward you? Here's the answer! Unfortunately the views you expressed are accepted as normal in many parts of the world. God never meant for that, man & woman were born as equals.You can change that way of thinking in your own family by having respect for women, & demanding it for your own daughter & wife.
2007-12-15 08:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age and maturity. Assuming that you have reached puberty, the younger you are the more likely you are to view them mainly as sex objects. With experience and maturity you discover their other qualities, have female friends, lovers, and hopefully commitment. If you are older and not there yet you can work at it and improve it or else be a case of "arrested development."
2007-12-14 23:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by Gerald G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see, you have to used your brain for that. Having not respect for women is like having no brain at all. No your different because men with respect for their self's respect and adore women. No wonder your wife treat you so bad.
2007-12-15 01:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mabel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a woman who enjoys something you enjoy, such as bowling, football, old cars, whatever. Talk to her. Listen to her. Ask her about herself. Force yourself to stay focused on what she talks about. Practice this until you get pretty good at listening. Then try it with other women. One of these days, you'll find one who will knock your socks off (unless you're gay).
However, it's unlikely you will ever be impressed enough to respect women without listening to them. How could you? What could you possibly respect them for if you don't get to know them?
2007-12-16 07:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by Amazonian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I commend you on your honesty. Learn to love them and you will respect them better. If you care about them in an unselfish manner then they will care about you too. Women need affection of the nonsexual nature. It's only then that they respond to you.
2007-12-14 23:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by Emmanuel H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Folks, be they women or men (and i doubt very much the latter care much, being a guy), only get used in this way because they let themselves be used. Lotta folks cry about being used for sex but they fail to mention they chose to get naked and chose to have sex. Just my opinion take it for what it's worth.
2016-05-24 01:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who uses George Michael as his icon claims to treat women as sex objects ? Who are you trying to kid ?
Come on out the cupboard, no-one's bothered if you're gay in this day and age.
2007-12-14 23:29:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋