Well. I'm a 16 year old girl who is very curious about evrything. When I was around 13 years old, I really felt very horny, it just came to me. and out of curiosity, I had sex with my brother.
Even though I know it's not right to have sex at this time, and have sex with your own brother, I just can't help it, Most of the time, I watch pornographic memories and after watching one, I masturbate. It's really fun and I just can;t stop it.
Everyone in my school thinks I'm a conservative person and I'm just scared that one day, a schoolmate of mine just spill out that we had sex at the bathroom of our school.
What should I do with my schoolmate? how will I preserve that good impression from my schoolmates? What to do when you feel like having sex.?
2007-12-14 20:39:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You need to find things to keep your mind off of having sex.
2007-12-14 20:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, the way you are doing it is kind of dangerous. You should pair off with just one guy you like a lot and that you like to hang out with besides having sex with. That way, at least you will have him to go to when you need to, and it won't seem so bad and selfish, especially if the sex isn't all about you, but also about him.
buy condoms. use them.
After you get a chance to have regular sex for a while, you won't feel so desperate about it anymore. You will still want to, maybe a lot, (I do) but you won't have to be AFRAID about it, and that's the best thing. Then you will have a chance to grow a deeper relationship with the guy too, and that will be fun.
Don't be too worried about your high school reputation, you are only going to know those kids another couple of years at most anyway. Make your life what you want it to be, not what you think other people say it should be..
How does your brother feel?
2007-12-17 23:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it's ok to be horny and whatnot at your age. Don't feel bad or worry too much. Its hormones and just curiosity as you said.
It was wrong to have sex with your brother, that's probably going to lead to problems with both of you in your future relationships...I should know even though I'm young.......
Try to get into a hobby or masturbate if you want, that doesn't harm anyone nor yourself.
About your schoolmate, try to talk seriously with them and say you just want it to stay between you both and that your both mature enough to keep things between yourselves. Say you'll feel really exposed and just not good if other people found out, its wrong for them to have told anyone else or a lot of people anyway.
Take care...
2007-12-15 04:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by Torsti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know sleeping with a sibling is wrong, but Christ, people, chill out! /:<
If anything, take solace that it was someone she know ( would've been better if it was a close friend or DISTANT relative if it had to be a relative ) instead of a total stranger who could've given her random STDs..
/: Secondly, it's perfectly natural to feel urges. You just need to learn to keep them under control. Either find something to distract yourself or masturbate until you feel you've had enough for the time being.
That, or if you want a partner and you have someone you're close to, run it by them. It's not bad to have friends with benefits, as long as you know you can trust them.
And don't worry what other people think. People are stupid and quick to judge based on nothing at all. If you act like it bothers you, chances are people will keep pestering you about it... but if you relax and are calm and collected about it, the issue will get old and tiresome and won't hold any interest soon.
/: Just try not to fret over this sorta thing.
2007-12-15 05:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by Snow 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well.... ms. hot momma.....
Your 16, your in high school about now, rumors have spread around you. sorry to say this, but your screwed, your reputation is as an incestful horr, which i really hope you did not tell anyone you slept with your brother, you wont be able to regain your good impression, high school is full of drama, and anyone will do anything to screw you over, especially when someone goes and tells someone what you do, thats terrible, i have pity in you,seriously, you should have a smarter mind, especially to do anything sexual at school.
im sorry,im not here for rude remarks, but thats the truth, and you probably wont be able to have a good impression anymore with most of the people your at school with.
and when i feel like having sex, i dont just GO AND DO IT or even do it at school, if im in a public place,i dont do anything but have crazed sex thoughts in my head, but if im alone, then i jerk off, simple as that, or if i happen to be with someone then i have sex. k, but just nowhere terrible..
good luck, getting a good reputation back from people. youll need it......
2007-12-18 00:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by KTyler 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait, you actually laid your brother, and he was cool with that? "Oh yeah sis, let's just do it. But keep it down cause we don't want mom to hear!"
It's natural to be curious and have a desire to have sex, especially when you're a teenager. You might be over sexed, you're too into it and want it so much, and that could wind you in a heap of trouble, especially if you end up pregnant. I don't think you need a Dr., there's noting un-normal, expect the bit about having sex with your brother--that's just weird. Keep your head on straight, becareful, and do what it is you need to do in order to turn out the person you would like to become--and that's a decision you need to make for yourself when it comes down to it.
2007-12-15 23:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you for real? This sounds so made up. Sex with your brother??? DISGUSTING! You need help talk to your parents perhaps they can ge tyo on birth control and self control. 16??? Whatever you think you know about sex isnt close to what should be on your mind. Education, Success, a Future, A Life and enjoying childhood is where you focus needs ALL your attention. I'll pray for u hun.
2007-12-15 04:45:32 · answer #7 · answered by mistista07 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Go to counselling and get some help.
Masturbating after pornography isn't wrong
but sex taking over you life is.
You really need some help to control it.
Go to counselling and they can help you find ways to keep your mind off it.
I strongly suggest not going to school counsellor or psychiatrist but using someone from outside.
2007-12-15 13:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok well first of all conservative is never a good impression in my mind. Conservative is BORING!
Second of all stop sleeping around with people. You're going to be labeled a s*l*u*t/white trash after awhile. NOT GOOD!
2007-12-15 06:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Sexi Man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hope you are joking, because this is a serious thing.
my brother was the best student you could possibly imagine, and it was his senior year.
he had sex in a school bathroom, and got kicked out.
his college options were very limited after that.
if you are serious, then you need to go to a counselor.
good luck to you=]
2007-12-15 16:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋