would it be better to cover it up, and have an ego?
why do they pick on people like that?
why do they attract they same kind of people in life, even though some have better hearts or minds then those who cover it up?
2007-12-14 20:00:21 · 9 answers · asked by xxeastbaycorexx 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
People who have low self esteem are not going to inherently think that others like them, it's tha natuer of the beast. Ego is for the weak, People are picked on by those who have surface level fear and don't like themselves very much. People just attract certain types, usually it is a predator prey scenario, I wish I could change that because I always attract the same type of dysfunctional female, it's how it is.
2007-12-14 20:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by Orion Quest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very good question for me tonight! In my opinion most of the time from experience "people " "society" tend to categorize situations into one. Most of the time people who suffer from depression have a chemical in balance in the brain. which in most cases they tend to use or have once upon a time used a alternative to fill the in balance to make it balance it was always told a drunk man speaks a sober mind people are cruel and full of lies no one can dictate how another feels unless they tell them. I was told as a child to cover things up but as I grow older I realize their is help and their is always someone some were having the same feelings I am. The people who talk about them can relate . Heart is eternity mind is temporary!
2007-12-14 20:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by ljjmjd3 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because some (not all) people with low self esteem seem to almost enjoy feeling like that. They like having pity and having people fawn all over them. They milk every bit of attention they can get. Those are the people who irritate me to no end.
However, if someone with low self-esteem/depression doesn't act like that... I have no problem with them whatsoever.
2007-12-14 20:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by LolaC☼ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Interesting, studies show that people are attracted by either a previous relationship with a family member or lack there of. But why people continue to choose a certain type repeatibly I have no idea.
2007-12-15 02:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by jcpfaff4 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because people now a days are affraid of telling real people the truth and letting the person know the are a good person and they are somebody. Now a days, people are affraid of hurting someone's feelings or even thinking they are stepping out of line.
2007-12-14 20:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drama
2007-12-14 20:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by kim 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dunno but it is true that people will attack other people with low self-esteem. Probably it is better to cover it up or try to feel better because you get into problems with people otherwise.
2007-12-14 20:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by days_o_work 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because they are greedy unevolved, cruel idiots that are blind. they dont understand deppression. i am deppressed alot, always have been. no one has treated me good either. so i chose to be lonely and gave up . i have not been treated good by anyone and so , i give up. either that or i just need a girlfriend.
2007-12-14 20:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by Aaron M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
either with or without reason the strong will persue the week
that was a verse from a song by the call i thought it fit
2007-12-14 20:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by sissy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋