2007-12-14 19:49:36 · 13 answers · asked by Jackie 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
UR words tear me up... in a better place... I dont believe in god or heaven. She died thinking we were BFF when in my heart I knew we were BFL. Should I change to her religion so we can be BFF?
2007-12-14 20:48:42 · update #1
But if I stay my religion do I never get another BFF or BFL? What good is BFF if you get a new one when your old BFF dies? Id be lying.
2007-12-15 05:45:13 · update #2
I'm so sorry. Go on with your life, your friend would want you to. But never forget them.
2007-12-15 02:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear that. But there is really nothing that we can do. All we can do is pray for her friends and family. If she was saved then you know she is in a better place. But all that can happen now is go on living, and never forget the great times you all had together. And how much you loved each other (as friends I mean). Also keep God in mind. He has a reason for this. Even though we may not know. We might figure it out later on.
2007-12-14 20:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by sillygoosetonda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is the same as before. If your saying best friends forever than that is what it is, dead or alive. Even if you don't believe in anything spiritual. Just because your best friend has passed, that doesn't mean they're not your best friend. Just go about your life, and think about the good times and good things. Thinking sorrowful things will only hurt and prolong the agony. People always just want to be remembered for the good things in life. So just do your best to think of those things, and go about your life. After all your not dead, your still here, and being in a sorrowful state isn't going to help you get through this. It is good to express greif but, it is also good to move on with your life.
2007-12-14 23:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by Living In Fast Forward 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss. What now... You live your life with the wonderful memories and lessons that that person gave you. Our bodies may perish but as long as someone remembers us then we are never truly dead.
Plus if you believe in God and Angles then you have a wonderful angle looking over you. And you can still talk to them. I occasionally talked to my grandma for about 2 years after her death.
Good Luck.
2007-12-14 20:19:21 · answer #4 · answered by STRESSED spells DESSERTS 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like every one else I'm very sorry. Take time to start the healing it is a life long healing, but in time you learn to cope. Dont change anything about your believes your friend was your friend because of who you are. Best of like
2007-12-14 22:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by The Cheetos Man! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for the lost of your fiend... I know its difficult now but time will heal you. Think about good memories you two created together. It will take time to heal but think that your bff will live in your hear forever.
2007-12-14 19:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by caliluvsun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but hummmm. It depends on your believe.... She passed away, but......
"You'll be in my heart, you'll be in my heart, from this day on, now and forever more...." This lyrics is a song by Phill Collins from the Disney animated movie, Tarzan.
It's time to move on my friend.
2007-12-15 00:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They're in a better place now, just take it easy for a while, if you have any friends or family you talk with openly, might want to lean on their shoulder a little.
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don't try and forget your friend,
if anyone says to try and forget them, they're wrong.
and I'm sorry for your loss. =(
2007-12-14 20:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that happen to me earlier this year.. The best thing is to grieve and find comfort in family and friends and know that they are okay and in a better place.
2007-12-14 19:56:42 · answer #9 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER FORGET HER! I know you dont believe in God but she is in heaven. Go to church pray for her. Since shes in heaven and when you pray to her she can hear everything you are saying :)
2007-12-15 01:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by mp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋