my ex girlfriend (yes im bi) treated me like sht, ignoring me, using me, she was really violent and im sure she was cheating on me with my best friend (who isnt very truswtworthy and wouldnt tell me if i asked her) and she paid more attention to all girls other than me, but i loved her toomuch to leave... then she started hating me over literally one weekend and told all my frends (wigch are also her frends) all this stuff that half of wich was either a lie or sumthing from the past that i thaught we were over... we were still dating but then i herd froma 3rd person that she broke up with me... she dusnt even tslk to me let lone look in my direction anymore... she has cut me open and poured salt in the wounds, crushed me and left me for dead. she just laughs when i want to talk to her... i cant take it... at one point ther was so much pain i couldnt even cry... but now im crying again, wen i close my eyes i see her... im breaking down.
2007-12-14 17:29:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are really hurting over what this girl has done to you, right? She has obviously broken your trust, betrayed your affection for her, and cut the strings that connected you to her. Now you must do the same, but not the same way. You have to walk away from her, say goodbye, and realize that she is the one in the wrong by treating you like she's doing.
Your crying is normal, it is part of the grieving process when someone you care deeply for becomes lost to you - a death, a breakup, the loss of a loved pet will all generate grief. Let your feelings out privately, and then get on with your life. Losing a girl- or boyfriend is part of life, it happens, and you will get over it if you let yourself do so. There are others out there who will be much better for you - and either you'll find them in time, or they'll find you.
2007-12-14 17:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by TitoBob 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i glance at it this style-i'm no longer a JW btw- i assume you could evaluate that good judgment to a instructor who on the 1st actual day of faculty informed the finished class, 'anybody gets an A'. Afterall, the instructor is being style to the youngsters. If all infants already won an A from the gettgo, what's the element of the instructor coaching the class? and what may be the element of the youngsters doing their homework or listening in school in the event that they already have the A? See, the instructor gave the youngsters the prospect for all of them to have that A and yet she keeps to instruct in hopes that those infants can save that A by making use of their overall performance or by making use of their annoying artwork shown in school. for my section, and that i'm sorry if this entire good judgment ingredient would not make any sense- it is the comparable with God. He gave us all a huge gamble to have eternal existence whether it is as much as us to maintain that threat he gave. correct?? NO? incorrect? oh properly. this is my opinion. a JW would have an entire diverse clarification or good judgment hehe
2016-11-03 08:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by baskette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. No one is worth killing yourself for
2. Suicide will only cause pain to the other people in your life who care about you and love you (Have you forgotten about these people in your grieving?)
3. What your ex is doing sounds like high school bull crap and you will look back on it someday and realize that it made you a stronger person to go through the pain you are experiencing now.
4. You won't believe a word anyone says to you right now because you are concentrating so hard on your grief. Just don't take any drastic measures that you can't take back. Be careful and please take care of yourself.
2007-12-14 18:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by LIl One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life doesn't end with just one person. Difficult times come only to make you appreciate the good times. They also make you strong. Take this event as a challenge. Who knows what good God may have for you in bag. Just hang on! Tough times don't last but tough people do.
2007-12-14 18:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by Adam_sandler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use that hate, that anger, that sadness, against those who stand against you.
Nothing wll be out of your reach if you can master emotion itself
Stand strong, that is all you can do, stand strong and cry, cry until it hurts and cry some more.
thats the only way my friend, i wish there was an easier way, but i have yet to find it.
May Death Come Swiftly To Your Foes
2007-12-15 09:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by The Keeper Of Secrets™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your looking at this the wrong way. She has given you a chance to find someone worthy and someone better for you. .
Dont worry if people dont get you - its their problem. .They arent real friends if they believe rumours about you anyway. .
Dont say anything to anyone, be strong, dont waste time crying and get over the girl and get on with your life. Think of it as 'her loss' not yours!!
2007-12-14 18:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by emo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Death is the easy way out and then she wins. Seek counseling for this. It sounds like you are a good person, you just need some help to get yourself to a good and happy place.
2007-12-14 17:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by wcowell2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this is not a very considerate person. You deserve better
2007-12-14 17:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by I like chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her sudden contempt isn't worth dying for. Stay alive and teach her a lesson. "To live well yourself is the best revenge."
2007-12-14 17:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by Jami 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋