My boyfriend is always wanting to do stuff for me, just sexual stuff not sex(though he wants it) and i just can't get aroused down there recently, not even when i am by myself and trying to do stuff, i just suddenly can't get aroused much, what are some tips to handling this situation? like how to re get aroused, and stay aroused. i think i worded this the way that i wanted to.
2007-12-14 16:54:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
yes, i really do have a boyfriend, and it isn't just with my boyfriend that i am having the problem, i am having the problem by myself too
2007-12-14 17:00:08 · update #1
um.... to be real honest with u, i get like that sometimes, and so when it comes to sex, its just him wanting to do it. but anyways i get like that when im tired. working to much and school and kids, the list goes on. so u could have to much on ur plate that sex or sexual games isnt on ur list to do. be careful though cause ur bf might think ur doing it with someone else. it happens trust me! watch, one of these days u will be at work or somewhere and all of a sudden its gonna come at ya. u want to do all these crazy things to ur man. lol. this 'feeling' u have, it will go away.
2007-12-14 17:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by sasso_19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, how are you feeling generally speaking? Are you more tired than usual? How about stress? What's been going on in your life that would over-flow into personal areas of your life?
Usually, there is a reason these things happen. All you have to do is figure out where the source of the problem is and fix it...not necessarily an easy task.
2007-12-15 01:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by RT 66 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you taking any kind of medications? Sometimes certain medications can really kill your sex drive. Your health in general can kill your sex drive. Make sure you're getting enough sleep, eating right, and not stressing. Also, your hormones can just go through changes. Or it could be something as simple as you're just bored. Try new and exciting things!
2007-12-15 01:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you are feeling like less of a person; a person that is being taken advantage of; stop and when you are ready then you will be ready..
2007-12-15 01:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lifeline 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you taking birth control. Sometimes that can kill your sex drive.
2007-12-15 01:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stress
depression
or mentally
2007-12-15 01:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
awwwwwwwwww what a cute fantasy
2007-12-15 01:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you're into girls and not guys? Or you are taking medication that kills your libido?
2007-12-15 00:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
because you don't really have a boyfriend. This is your fantasy.
2007-12-15 00:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by Mdme. Mango Keeps it Real 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋