to conceive me and my hubby. i know people will say that if i'm trying around my ovulation period. But we've tried everything! we've even tried having sex every single day for 2 months (excluding when im on my period) does this mean we can't have children?
2007-12-14 16:44:17 · 14 answers · asked by ♥ღ♥Babygirl♥ღ♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Stupid as this may sound it is TRUE advice given to my sister in law by 3 different doctors.
1- Do not have sex more than 2 times a week.
2- BOTH of you must Eat properly and drink lots of water.
3- Have your husband wear boxers instead of briefs. Let the penis and nuts have a hang out party for a few months.
4- Now here is the insane part of all this....But she did it and has 3 kids now.
SO...after he cums...Flip up and let the sperm stay inside. Stand on your head, lie on pillows with your hips UP or whatever it takes but do not let any escape for 10 minutes. Then you can get up or shower or just roll over and go to sleep.
Eat meat for a girl and veggies for a boy. :)
2007-12-14 18:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by Georgia on my Mind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried charting your temperature? Using ovulation tests? Do you know what type of cervical fluid is ideal for conception? Have you tried Preseed? Do you really know when you are ovulating?
Just because you had sex every day for 2 months doesn't mean that you "should have" gotten pregnant. Assuming you are ovulating correctly, having so much sex can totally deplete your husband's sperm count. They need time to build up again. My doctor reccommended having sex every 36 hours from cycle day 10 - 17. This covers all your bases and yet allows some time for the sperm to build back up.
Buy a book called Taking Charge of Your Fertility. It is a bible to those trying to concieve, I can't imagine starting this journey without such precious knowledge. Good luck to you and your hubby!! I suggest reading the book and then trying for 2 more cycles, and then book an appointment with a fertility specialists to get a semen analysis run along with some other basic tests on you.
2007-12-14 17:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by Reanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can see a specialist. I wish I would have a lot sooner. I have been married alomst 5 years we have been trying for 3 1/2 yrs. It took only 2 cycles for me to get pregnant of clomid. I did have to give up and they wanted me to have surgery so I said I would I was scheduled for next week. Turns out Im 5 weeks pregnant. I know its hard to "Stop trying" and I dont know how many times I heard that. Its something that just keeps your mind thinking about all the time.
Just keep your chin up. And I dont agree that if you are under 30 you should just keep trying. I am under 30 and Im glad we got help because it is a long and hard road and I wish this on NO ONE.
2007-12-14 17:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by Logan & Peytons Mommy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. If you are using KY jelly or any such lubricant stop... most of them kill sperm. You can find articles about new studies on that if you google it.
2. I know it is hard - but quit thinking about it. It usually happens when you are not trying. I tried for 3 years then when I got laid off and had no health insurance and was thinking "now would be a bad time to end up pregnant"... bam - I was pregnant just like that.
2007-12-14 16:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi Stacie, i be attentive to that as quickly as all you like is a sprint one that 7 months sounds like a lfe sentence yet docs gained´t evaluate that there is a difficulty till you have been TTC for a minimum of a year. I concieved after 19 month. 4 months of those develop into on Clomid. i develop into so annoyed that te established practitioner didnt take us heavily that i ended up paying to pass inner maximum. Why dont you attempt charting your cycles, so as that if no longer something happens interior of here couple of months you have an theory how your cycle is working. it provides you with a extensive piece of suggestions understanding what's happening. sturdy success. i be attentive to it is so no longer complication-free TTC yet carry close on in there. it may take any healthful couple as much as a year to concieve.
2016-11-27 01:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistically this is insignificant. It doesn't mean you can't have children. Depending on your age, you should either keep trying for a few more months, or consult a doctor now. If you are under 30, you should probably just keep trying. Fertility rates drop rather sharply after thirty so it might take longer to conceive. Good luck!
2007-12-14 16:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by treebird 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, quit worrying about it. Try not to think of it (easier said than done), and just have sex to enjoy it rather than making it a task. Once your body "calms down" from the unneeded stress, you might find a nice "bun" in the oven. Good luck...and for God's sake, enjoy the sex.
2007-12-14 17:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by crmeyer71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a CLESR BLUE FERTILITY MONITOR u can get them on ebay..... u pee on a stick and it will tell u wen u r ovulating then u can go 4 it then...
good luck.
ttc#1+2 mc for 8 month..... 1 st month wit monitor, think it will tell me im gonna o in the next few days
2007-12-14 17:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by bluestar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say after a year of trying u should see ur gyno to get test done on u and ur hubby...and go from there.....GL
2007-12-14 17:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by missy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just dont try so hard and remember stress can stop u from concieving good luck
2007-12-14 16:47:47 · answer #10 · answered by paris l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋