should a 13 year old have 34DD boobs?

Question

I'm 13 and my bra size is 34DD. Boys stare at them all day, and make very inappropriate comments. I'm only in 7th grade, and I don't know what to do, they ask me to "jump up and down" for them and I find it rude. They will also laugh at me and it makes me unconvertible. I need advice from girls OR boys to tell me what i should do!!

Answer 1

Do not amuse them at all!
Ignore the rude comments & take it to the principal, if the harassment does not stop!!
Tell you mother, too.

Answer 2

Should a 13 year old have 34DD boobs?

Well its not like you can help it. Its not like should a 13 year old have a cell phone.

Just ingore them. They are 13 and amused by huge boobs. Ignore them. They will grow-up someday around age 25.

Answer 3

I feel your pain, my 14y.o daughter also has 34DD breasts, and has since she was 13. She hasn't had as many problems as you seem to have however it may be because she is very close to her teachers and would always let them know if the boys were bothering her like that. What the boys are doing is sexual harrassment and needs to stop, talk to your guidance counselor at school and a trusted adult at home to help you find a good supportive bra, and clothes that fit you properly so you are comfortable and not straining. Keep your chin up and be proud of yourself, you have nothing to be ashamed of.

Answer 4

I had 38 EEE when I was that age, and ended up at 18 getting a reduction. Now I'm a comfortable 36D.Guys did the same to me,it scared me,cause now I don't like them messed with much. They have much more feeling in them though. I was known for my boobs. I left my hometown, had surgery, went back to my home town10 years later and no one knew me, just shows what they were looking at. Guys dated me cause they thought just cause I had big boobs, I was easy. Co-Ed gym wasn't a circus either, and when my teacher made me run I would pass out from all the weight. You may end up huge, consider a reduction when your at a more mature age. It was the best thing I ever did. I have nice breasts now.

Answer 5

Well, sounds like they are natural, so I guess you are meant to have them. Yes, it is outside the common size range, but that is what you have been given.

If 13 year old boys ask you that, do not treply, just smile. Sadly, that is the level of interest by 13 year old boys. As they get older, their area of interest will change.

Think of it this way, they are attracted to you, but are too uncertain of how to express that attractiveness, yet.

We can not tell you what to do. Only make suggestions on how to handle the situation(s).

Their actions are covering up their own discomfort with their changing bodies, some of which will show; clumbsiness, breaking voice, and some will not.

You need to develop confidence in yourself. The opinion of other people are not important generally. If you allow yourself to be affected by other peoples shallow comments, then they can begin to manipulate you.

I personally suggest sayng nothing and just smile as you pass by people who make rude comments. It is clear that they have their own problems.

Answer 6

I had large breasts (still do) at your age perhaps a little larger. I know exactly what you are talking about. It makes you feel very uncomfortable. The guys would also tell to jump up and down and would often tease me about "stuffing" my bra!! It would make me so mad.

I eventually told the prinicpal and all of the boys were suspended. Although the teasing didnt stop till all of the other girls started getting boobs and I was no longer the center of attention.

Unfortunately you have large boobs at a young age. Tell an adult figure that has authority to do something about it.

I wish you luck.

Answer 7

Get some really good support bras. Make sure not to wear shirts that show off the fact more than needed. If your boobs are big (or small for that matter) boys your age will make fun and you can't do anything much but ignore them. You are too young for breast reduction since you are still growing. When you get older people will not make fun anymore.

Answer 8

Don't listen to these people about reductions. You are not allowed to have any kind of reduction until you are 18, because you need to finish growing first. I would bring the harrassment to a teacher or principal, and I would talk to an Aunt, and vent out. Good Luck.

Answer 9

It is rare for a 13 year old girl to have breasts of that saize, however, it's nothing you can controll. The guys who are teasing you are being assholes... ignore them. I know it's hard, but do your best. If it becomes to much for you talk to an adult with power to make change. You shouldnt have to live everyday of your life with that harrasment.

Answer 10

Im 15 with a 36DDD, i was a D at your age. Guys are horrible in middle school, i remember gym class in 8th grade, having to strap em down with 2 sports bras and run with my arms holding them down and the first time i wore a remotaly low cut shirt getting food thrown down all lunch(the tossers offered to get it out for me lol). Its better in high school, but there is still jerks who prolly don't know my eye color. I just ignored the guys(I don't really have many guy friends) and i don't really show them off. Try a minimizer, also, im slightly considering reduction. also make sure your bra has lots of support.

Answer 11

everyone is different... so that size might be normal for you. there's always gonna be rude people in this world, just ignore them. or if its really bothering you or they are going too far tell a teacher, you're parents, the school, bc that's harrassment and its not ok for them to treat you like that no matter what!!!
i'm sorry they do that sweety! i would tell an adult so they can help prevent it! boys that age (any age for that matter) are imature, just have fun, and don't let them get to you. ask for help! good luck! :D