Or he is just pursing because he CAN...? What if he says he wants to start off as friends with this woman and move into more? Why would he still pursue this dangerous situation if everything is ok at home??
2007-12-14 15:35:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
...a plan for what?
2007-12-14 15:38:23 · update #1
Well if he is looking else where he must not be in love, if he were he would be happier...
2007-12-14 16:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by AzNative89 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, I would like for you think and answers these few question.
Now, if you're happy with your car that you have now. Would you got out and shop for new car?
If you're happy with your relationship with your boyfriend even through the ups and downs, how the two of you solve your problems and go back being happy. Would you look for another male for a friend?
No, if a man is Happily married he have no reaons to pursue another woman. Why chance to lose everything that he wanted in his life? If any man said that and pursue another woman then his is liar!
2007-12-14 15:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Contact the soldier's command in writing. Get your facts and evidence together & write a detailed letter. A copy of paternity test results might help also. The soldier's CO has the authority to decide on how to resolve the case, if at all. The Soldier can definitely be subject to the UCMJ for adultery. Adultery is considered a relative minor offense and typically would not go to a court-martial. Even if it went to a court-martial, it would go to either a summary court-martial or a special court-martial. You cannot be discharged at a summary court-martial, but can go to the brig for 30 days, amongst other things. You can be discharged at a special court-martial at face up to 12mths in the brig. The only way to get a dishonorable discharged is at a general court-martial, and there is no way it will ever go that far based upon the facts you describe. He should also consider contacting his local congressman if the command refuses to do anything. The case will be likely be resolved at NJP (Article 15, Non Judicial Punishment), summary court or possibly a special court-martial. Hope this helps.
2016-05-24 00:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happily married men do not cheat. If they are cheating either 1. they are cheaters and something is wrong with them or 2. something is wrong at home. If the problem is one, u need to leave and find a better man. If it is 2. you can still mend the relationship by talking and understanding. But REAl men do not cheat, they are with who they WANT to be with and support the family and buiold a future. They have no time to "play" with anyone else BUT their wife. There is no such thing a friends with other females. The only friends femaile is his wife, that's all.
2007-12-15 06:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by ladida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man is truly happy with his significant other, be it his wife, live-in girlfriend, what ever, he will not stray for any reason. If he's looking,he can say whatever he wants to or come up with all the excuses in the world, it won't change the fact that he doesn't truly care about the one he has at the house. I've never understood men; you can get laid anywhere these days, where's the challenge in that? I would think that it would be more of a challenge to find that 1 woman and keep her happy.
2007-12-14 15:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I work with mostly men, and I have seen a lot (but not all by any means) of them cheat. Not because things were bad at home, or because they were unhappy with their wives, but because some woman offered and they COULD.
So I would say the answer to "Would a guy who says he is happy in his marriage still pursue another woman?" is Yes, but it depends on the guy.
2007-12-14 15:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by kyeri y 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Can only answer from what my husband said. He was very happy in his marriage; nothing wrong at home at all and he did cheat . . . so - yes he can be happy at home and pursue someone else.
2007-12-14 18:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO way,No how, and if he pursuing kick him out, there is no need for another woman or to flirt if all is good at home, you are suppose to be his world no one else
2007-12-14 16:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by joe f 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think there are players and those that are not. Most are players or will get it on the side if the wife won't find out.
The really special men are the ones that actually honor their wives and want a trusting relationship.
2007-12-14 17:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by Contemplative 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heckkkkk No!!!!!! if a guy or girl is truly happy and in love in their marriage all in all in their relationship, those thoughts dont even cross the mind, there is now way anything could get between you and the one you love like that, im considered to be quite a looker so im told but i dont care about no one else but my Mama baby pretty girl, i love my wife with all i exist with and i would feel really wrong and guilty if i even thought that would happen, i cant even dream about no one else and its just an amazing thing, the best, god at his finest!
2007-12-14 15:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by Danny 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If he's truly happy, he's not going to risk his marriage. A guy whose pursuing another woman is unhappy in his marriage.
2007-12-14 15:41:31 · answer #11 · answered by peaches6 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋