I went to see a psychic 6 years ago (been married 5, together 7) and out of the blue the psychic knew that I was seeing someone. She looked at me and knew that I was doubtful, and said to me, "This is the one, there is no other." Somehow, I came to believe that statement from her and have since tried to hold on to our marriage even thought I feel that I no longer love my husband as much as I know I can love someone.
Recently, I fell in love with another married man at work. Before this psychic and before I met my husband, I met another psychic that told me I as going to marry a divorced man. What do you think?
2007-12-14 13:28:41 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't blame it on the psychic. You fell for it. And you still know better than to cheat or become a mistress. Stop making excuses.
2007-12-14 13:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that first and foremost, you should STOP going to psychics IMMEDIATELY! I could've told you that you were seeing someone, and stood a good chance of being "right". I also could've told you that you'd marry a divorced guy, and still stood a darned good chance of being "right". I mean, come on, what percentage of the adult population is divorced? A LOT!!!!
Furthermore, don't you find it odd that one psychic told you you'd marry a divorced man, and then later, another told you you'd marry the man you were seeing?
Now here's the real deal: the "in love" feeling that people experience at the beginning of relationship's DOESN'T LAST. Not ever. It can't. It's a chemical high our own bodies create by releasing hormones, and the body can't keep that up forever.
Plus, living with a real person 24/7 you start to see the chinks in their armor. People fart, people smell, people leave clothes in the floor, don't put their dishes in the sink, forget to mow the lawn. You get the idea.
When that "in love" feeling fades, it's replaced by a much deeper love, one that understands and encompasses people with all their flaws.
Now, you could divorce and remarry ten more times, and with each of these men you would fall "out of love". That's just how it works.
Also, if this married man you are seeing now is cheating on his wife with you, don't you think someday you might be the wife sitting at home while he's out with the next girl? Perhaps when he "falls out of love" with you? If they'll do it with you/for you; they'll do it TO you.
I'm sorry that this has been so harsh. I just don't want to see you make a mistake or be jaded by bad information and bad choices. Best wishes.
2007-12-14 13:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by kyeri y 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people would say I was a psychic. Psychics are not qualified to say that kind of stuff. I wouldn't put to much faith in future predictions from psychics.
2007-12-18 00:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by Joe B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I know psychics are supposed to give direction, not absolutes. At least the real ones do. I think giving control of your life over to ANYBODY else is a very foolish thing to do. You shouldn't have given your power over to them then, and shouldn't excuse your cheating by saying one said you would marry again. You, my dear girl,are a sheep, ready to be shorn by each of these fakes.
Now is the time to take control of your life, and the direction of it.
2007-12-14 13:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Psychics" use a technique known as cold reading. They can tell from subtle cues, like your facial expressions, to tell some basic things about your life, and based on how you respond to their generalities they narrow you down to know exactly what you want to hear. This psychic somehow deduced that you were in a relationship, and knew that you wanted to hear that he was "the one."
2007-12-14 13:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by jellybeanchick 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No they at the instant are not. in the event that they have been then the place have been they ahead of 9/11? particularly all of those so-called psychics could have foreseen the tragic activities of 9/11 and could have warned anybody approximately it. they are rip-off artists no longer something extra.
2016-10-11 07:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you the answer if you pay me $35, then I can tell, just like the Psychic did.
2007-12-14 14:13:24 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are placing far too much importance on what a psychic says!!
2007-12-14 13:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to send that money your giving to these psychic to me because I see a Paten forming here.
2007-12-14 14:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by riggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u need to stop living ur life by psychics-theyre all a bunch off con artists anyway!
2007-12-14 13:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋