to be with?
2007-12-14 12:30:37 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It depemds on the degree of betrayal and if this is just one offense or a pattern that is clear. I could likely forgive a one time mess-up for mild to moderate betrayal... But for extreme or repeat offenses, its better to be alone and be available for someone who wont betray you. Its not really a clean yes/no answer.
2007-12-14 14:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by Magic Mouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I was with someone, and she had it made here. Then decided to leave because she thought the "grass was greener" on the other side of town. There I was all single again and to be honest I quite enjoyed it much. No more angriness and no more pissed off moods and her smashing and throwing things (for no reason at all).
Well she found out the grass was not greener over there ------->
So she chats to me online and asks me how much I want to rent my old house for, and I told her, she said she wanted a discount and I said "no dice". I own 2 houses and rent out one. So she asked how much for a room in the new house and I told her, and she tried to get a discount there and I said "no dice". The next day she was here and moving in and accepting MY PRICE.
Its really a great deal for her.
Strictly economics for me. But I'm not giving her anymore chances, I'd rather have the money :D
2007-12-14 12:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by WhereTheBuffaloRoam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being alone. I have a hard time trusting people again who's betrayed me in the past.
2007-12-14 12:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by kim_in_craig 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be alone forever then be with someone who betrayed me. I can forgive, but not forget. I will worry if they will repeat bad behavior again.
2007-12-14 16:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RATHER Live ALONE - - and have done so SUCCESSFULLY, Happily, and Joyfully for the past couple of DECADES! (Hey, I am the Survivor of a Short Disaster of a Marriage to an abusive, violent sociopath -- and I WALKED AWAY from Everything I earned/had/owned to LIVE -- and with my toddlers so they would LIVE as well)
2007-12-14 12:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats rely on
1.if this person tread u with respect and he is good with and he or she so repentant on his(her) fault.
2.what the kind of betrayed???
2007-12-14 12:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would rather be with someone who betrayed me.i mean whats the point of holding a grudge.no one has ever accomplished anything by holding a grudge. forgive the person and give them another try.
2007-12-14 12:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt want to be alone, but I definetly wouldnt go back to someone who betrayed me just to have someone. Thats pathetic
2007-12-14 12:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live alone. I choose to live with someone because they help me, make me a better person, but I don't need them. They aren't required for me to be a complete person.
2007-12-14 12:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by Big Super 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If my choices are being alone or being with someone who doesn't respect me enough not to betray me, I'll take alone.
2007-12-14 12:32:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋