How do you stop yourself from having an orgasm or delay it? I would like to wait a little longer so as to have mine at the same time as my boyfriend but I can't hold it? I come several times and it never works out simultaenously, as I would like it to. Any advice on how to wait?
2007-12-14 11:06:29 · 5 answers · asked by munchkin 7 in Health ➔ Women's Health
As much as you might want to have an orgasm as the same time as your boyfriend, I can tell you from experience that men love to be able to make a woman have multiple orgasms. It's an ego thing. It's like, "Man, am I good."
Enjoy the fact that you're multi-orgasmic. The vast majority of women I've been with were one-and-done in the orgasm department. In fact, the biggest complaint sexually that I have gotten from women in my life is that I last too long. They're done and they're starting to get bored. Well, excuuuuse me!
If you masturbate (and who doesn't), you know what triggers you to go off. Masturbate while he makes love to you. He'll get off on it (or, at least he should). Then, just enjoy each one until you know he's about to climax himself. Then you can save that last to coincide with his.
2007-12-14 11:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by Paul in San Diego 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are several ways to answer this. Is it simultanious with him even if it is your 2nd or 3rd or more orgasm? What about if you have entered the continuous orgasmic state where you have been orgasming the entire time until he does too? Or do you mean simultanious as being both of you starting your first orgasm at the same time?
The way to retard your orgasm while he is catching up is to reduce your stimulation relative to his. This can be done via changing positions, pressures, angles, stroke length . There are ways to teach him to become more sensitive to you. Before going for the simultanious orgasm, spend some time warming him up manually and bringing him to a peak and practicing "edging". That is something that you can learn too, with or without him. You can practice together or solo for learning to peak and edge. After both of you are at high arousal (and plenty of lubrication) intercourse using the Coital Alignment Technique (CAT) can probably most easily produce a simultanious orgasm. If one is following Taoist practices there are 7 levels of orgasm and the 7 th would be the "simultanious" one. Once he and/or you have learned to edge then it is just a matter of practicing. Simultaniuous orgasm is a learnable skill
2007-12-14 21:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by Freddd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always put presure on my clit to delay my orgasm but hey! When it's good it's good and if your going to *** your going to ***!
2007-12-14 19:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by Kris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no clue about that stuff on 10
2007-12-14 19:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think thats possible?
2007-12-14 19:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋