does it hurt? compare it to something please
and also is it better to be on top or on bottom? which is less pain
2007-12-14 09:47:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
for the first time, be on the bottom.
and yes. it hurts. badly. but it's not intolerable. he just needs to break your hymen and well. stretch you out. hah.
it's not that bad.
2007-12-14 10:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by Jade 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It doesn't hurt NEARLY as bad as you might think it will, especially if you are in love & he is willing to go slowly and pay attention to your needs. I would suggest he use a condom. That is SO important. It is hard to compare this to anything but, the pain is minimal. Just make sure you are lubricated and not dry before you actually start... or it might hurt a bit more. I hope you are old enough for the responsibilities that come along wtih sex. Be sure you are ready. You only experience your first time once! As far as being on top or bottom....This is going to be something only YOU can decide. What may feel good for one person may not feel good for you. Again, I cannot stress enough....USE CONDOMS!!!!!!!!
2007-12-14 18:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by Kay 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first time sex does hurt u need to use protection make sure its the right person u doing it with and make sure he feels the same way u do about him not just him wanting sex. just make sure u use protection and u are over the age 18 .either way in sex fine but the guy like's it most when u are on top but i love doggie thats' what i like the best its up to but also foreplay is important too u give him something he does the same for u as well if not then dont do it.it should be both ways.
2007-12-14 17:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by Roxie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It hurts. I have nothing to compare it to. I do not think that it hurts less on top or bottom, but being on the bottom (assuming you are talking about missionary) is probably easiest for the first time.
2007-12-14 17:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good Question Lol
Id Like To Know The Same.
2007-12-14 17:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by Annie. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a girl, so I wouldn't know from experience, but I've heard that it hurts and feels good at the same time. Bottom, definitely. Keep it classy.
2007-12-14 17:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Less pain on top.... may still hurt for a while though...just depends on him and on you
2007-12-14 18:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Arnold 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first time, it felt like a very hard pinch for a minute or two, then the pleasure took over.
2007-12-14 18:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by aqx99 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
pain depends on your body type '
i would say bottom is better for u
well good luck and make sure he's the right one
2007-12-14 17:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by Kaly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it will hurt,it hurts less to be on top,caus ur in control,not him,you will be able to decide how hard u want it
2007-12-14 17:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋