My boyfriend and I are both planning on having sex. It will be the first time for the both of us. I'm going to go on the pill and we have never been with anyone else.
~What should I expect?
~Any tips?
~How much did it hurt?
~Any suggetions?
I am old enough and I am ready. We have talked about this alot and I have no hesitation what so ever. I just want to know what to expect.
I'm planning on doing it no matter what so I would rather have answers that really help me then to get ones that say not to.
2007-12-14 09:31:35 · 4 answers · asked by Bader 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
dont expect your first time to be amazing cos its just a warm up for the next time. more you have it the better it gets ☺ have fun and be safe
2007-12-14 09:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is your boyfriend ready to be with you 100% if you get pregnant and bring this child into this world ??
It is up to you but I sure hope you have common sense to know what can happen if it's not just sex and you do become pregnant.
Use a condom for protection
I can't tell you what to expect because I think it's wrong to have sex unless your married.
2007-12-14 17:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by simpleminded 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have condoms and water-based lube handy.
Girls take a lot of foreplay, warm up. Your guy should spend a lot of time teasing you down there and applying lube. He should have 2-3 fingers inside of you going slow and making you happy and ready for him.
NOTE: He wont know this -you have to tell/teach him.
I suggest the following:
- You sit on the edge of the bed, lay back and put a pillow under your hips to lift you up.
- He stands by the bed and using his hands to fondle and apply lube, he slowly (SLOWLY) enters you.
This gives him lots of control and he can watch your reaction (a great thing). After he enters you he can start to move and lean over you face to face.
But the important part is go slow at first, apply lots of lube, get used to the pressure.
Most of the horrible experiences are because:
- they go to fast
- they 'jump in' too quickly before the girl is 'open' down there
So I hope your first is a toe-curling experience.
2007-12-14 18:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by Grumpy Mac 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would advice you not to do it until you are completely sure that HE is THE ONE.
But again...you don't want no answers.
So just use latex condoms to be safe.
2007-12-14 17:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋