My male friend watches porn but he never talks to me about it and nor does he talk about sexual things to me.
Why not?
2007-12-14 09:31:24 · 13 answers · asked by Autumn 2012 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Well being that men watch porn because it is a way to have unattached sexual desires fulfilled, I would say it has nothing to do with emotions. He probably doesn't talk about it because he doesn't want to offend you. Women put a lot of pressure on men in that area and he may not feel like you'd be 100% ccomfortable with him watching porn. If you really want him to open up to you, ask if he'd like to watch it with you, that way he knows that you fully accept (maybe even enjoy) it.
2007-12-14 09:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think that it depends on their state of mind. Some men idolize certain porn women (equivalent to anyone liking a celebrity or someone in the media). I believe most (normal) men, may fantasize about a particular woman in porn but not necessarily become emotionally attached to them. I mean why would they and if anything who would want to be emotionally attached to someone doing something tasteless as porn??? Im not against porn or porn stars but if the question was do men have emotional attachment to lets say a woman in the music industry or of any kind of status other than porn, then maybe just maybe (and that emotional attachment is usually the effect of being a fan) they might have some sort of attachment. But being that the question is regarding something that is out there in the male mind and industry, then I dont think its much of an emotional thing but a physical attraction.
2016-05-23 23:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is just something you watch, because it makes you feel good. You don't ever get emotional at porn. It would as if you get emotional to a action movie. Objects compared to humans have different importance in the brain, so it would be impossible to have the same emotional attachment to a porn movie, as that to a human.
2007-12-14 09:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by Johter 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't care what these guys say - men form emotional attachments to women wrapped in aluminum foil - they're women.
Porn dames?
Well... speaking of my own experiences - not exactly, no. But don't think I wouldn't bring Bree Olsen home for Christmas - or Amanda Addams, or Eva Angelina, or Crystal Wilder, or Eve Lawrence, or...
Get the point? If there is one thing that will get him to open up - it's the name game. Just WHO does he like? If, say you were to get him at a computer pornsite, comment casually on the stars - her boobs are .... her **** is... and then - "My ? looks better than that!"
Proceed.
"That's what porns are for!
Keep smiling... keep shining..."
heehee!
2007-12-14 10:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by tony key / tony romero 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I don't think men form emotional attachments, though I suppose they could get a crush on some actress. But as to not talking to you about it, well, how awkward is it to talk about sexual feelings stirred up by one woman with another! If he's young, he's wildly excited by any gal nude, and that's embarassing in its own right, but too he probably feels he's doing something wrong or sleazy by looking, and especially if he's your boyfriend, he's gotta feel he's cheating on you to some extent - ask him?
2007-12-14 09:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by All hat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's not so much an emotional attachment as the unwillingness to speak frankly about a social taboo. It doesn't matter how common and prevalent it has become; it's still socially taboo.
There's also the possibility that he likes you and thinks of you sexually, which makes the subject uncomfortable for him.
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2016-06-23 06:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. Can you have an emotional attachment to pizza? It's like that. Why don't women feel like they're in competition with pizza? Or do they?
2007-12-14 09:40:07 · answer #8 · answered by dddbbb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel the need to talk about it? Do you often talk to any of your male friends about your menstrual cycle? There are some parts of life that don't necessarily lend themselves to open discussion. If you have made your curiosity known, I think that if and when he is ready to talk about it, he will.
2007-12-14 10:01:33 · answer #9 · answered by Gee Whizdom™ 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
he is probably more attached to the 'emotions' he feels whilst viewing the porn, than he is to anyone in them.
2007-12-14 09:55:19 · answer #10 · answered by insignificant_other 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋