There's this guy in our school and he has been staring at me for like almost 2 weeks now and there has been times when we were so close that he could have talk to me but he didnt.
He's nice he always opens the door for me and just yesterday in spanish we needed to get books and he brought a book for me then he never talks to me but he came to me asking if i wanted him to put my book up so that was like the only time he said something to me.Then in the hallway he looked and smiled at me.
So what confusing me is all this tells me and other people who i have told this,that he likes me then why wont he talk to me?Also he looks at one of my friend but not the way he looks at me,so is that suppose to mean anything?
2007-12-14 09:27:17 · 66 answers · asked by BlossomMe 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
hey I remember answering your question about this boy last week and we all gave you the information that you need so why didn't you haven't you done something to improve this situation I told you on your last question about this guy that he is afraid to talk to you because of your beauty and he scare of you might rejection him so that mean he is shy so go head and ask him something and see if he will take it from there. since you are in high school ask him to come and eat at the time table with all your girlfriends at lunch or ask him or for a walk and you said that he is in your gym class too, ask him if he can be your practice partner and so what I mean is that she is shy and scare so you better make your move and let him see that you appreciate his attractiveness of you. so he is out side the door waiting for you to rescue him or open the door for him so go head open your door and invite him in and to say something that you like him too so why are you afraid of talking to him. do something girl. I'm tired of waiting to see how did it go.
2007-12-14 19:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow , Great ... I never knew there was 10 pts for the best answer !
edit , now I will answer ur real question , excuse my rudeness !
Huh , That boy remind me of myself ... I can tell u he is really shy , he is afraid u might refuse u , he likes u in a way that make him sure that Such beauty and innocence can't be connected to low self esteemed him ... He is a bit insecure ... !
What to do ?
u have 2 options left :
1st : ignore the whole matter and unless a miracle happens he will never try and talk to u or ask u out ! then u will lose someone who admires u from the bottom of his heart !
2nd : Proceed , be the one who starts the conversation , Since u r a girl ... but don't make it a habit or u will get bored fast , u must make him more stable and self confident so u have a normal relationship , since u r more stable emotionally than he is , then u hold responsibility to succeed this relation if u want to !
Excuse my rudeness again and let us know later what u have done !
Cheers
2007-12-14 09:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by Haitham Emad 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think he doesn't mean anything, he's just nice and helpful. If he did had a special felling he would have done funny errors, example he looks at a girl he likes and then he walked toward a wall without realizing there is a wall in the first place that sort of situation. The chances of him having a special feeling for you is very low.
Try talking to him, try to ask questions like why he being so nice to you. Try it out...
2007-12-15 12:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by Dealz © 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that he likes you... either that or he has a staring problem, likes the way you dress, and/or is a mute? ^_^
No (I'm j/k)... Honestly based on what you're saying... it seems as though he has an interest in you but:
1) Is very shy
2) Intimidated by your looks (because he thinks you're beautiful aka out of his league)
3) lacks confidence (afraid of getting shot down / rejected)
4) doesn't know how to approach a girl (doesn't know what to say to you or when he should talk to you)
or
5) a combination (or all) of the above.
Some guys your age are shy and don't always know how to deal with girls. So confirm if he likes you by asking him directly, or asking one of your friends (or his friends to ask him) who he likes (or what he "thinks" about you).
After you find out... go from there. I can go on... but I think you can figure out what to do. If you can't... let me know. Good luck. ^_^
2007-12-14 09:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by Carpe DM™ 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he needs you to make the first move. It does seem that he likes you and notices you, but is intimidated by the thought of talking to you. He may have been giving your friend a look trying to figure out if he can talk to you through her. Sometimes guys find it easier to talk to the best friend and see if they think you might be interested in them. Then, his hope is the word will of course get back to you and then the ice will be broken. He sounds really sweet.
2007-12-14 09:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by MadeYouReadThis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When boys are young, they don't understand their own feelings as much, but they know they got them. He is shy because he doesn't know what to do. He also doesn't know if his peers will make fun of him (who knows if its 'in' to like a girl yet).
My best advice, would be for you to talk to him - in that you ask him what he is doing after school to see a game or do something innocent. Don't expect anything and just get him to talk. You start, he might finish. He just needs a better opportunity where he doesn't have to worry about anyone else but you.
2007-12-14 09:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
omg why doesnt a guy talk to a girl! lol
this has been going on since they banned males from dragging females into caves.
ok you need to talk to him. this is just one of those guys that is shy and isnt going to talk to you for fear of rejection. so go have a word with him. ask him to walk you home, goto lunch, hang out at the library. smoke some weed under the stairs. lol something. anything
2007-12-14 09:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by kvnrose 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well are any less or more points for best answers?
Now about this guy, He has a crush on you. He liked you very much & probably secretely loves you. But he is not approaching you beacuse one he is too shy, secondly he has inner fear that what if you say no to his advances.
If you like him, you can be the first mover & start being friendly with him.
all the best
2007-12-14 18:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He likes you but he's also afraid of rejection. So he's waiting for the right moment. You could cue him a little, girl!
Make him work a little, though. Don't let anyone take you for granted. In his eyes you're perfect at this point. He feels you're way out of his league, but he's brave enough to send you signals. Be a princess. That way you never have to lower your standards!!!
2007-12-14 09:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is from a male view. happens during my youth.
we like the girl and make a lot of song and dance sending all the right signals to the girl but dont have the guts to ask them a direct question or ask them out.
the girls on other hand are not sure and not to get the wrong end of the stick will not make the first move.
result == catch 22
2007-12-14 09:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋