hi, im sarah, and im really depressed, my parents got divorced when i was 9, and that took a really hard toll on me. and then when i was 10 my bbf got murder, god let him r.i.p.
but my mom is engadged and i cant tell her how im feeling because she will just look at me, grin, and say go sit in your room and cry, let it all out... how do i tell her how i feel? and i cry everyday and i only have 1 good friend that understands what im going through, and i cut myself with a razor practicly every day... how can i tell her how im feeling inside and how i deal with it???
2007-12-14 08:42:53 · 13 answers · asked by petey!!! 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hi Sarah, You did the right thing by asking for help. If your mom isn't listening then you really need to talk to someone you feel comfortable with any one.Maybe your Friends mom or a favorite teacher (even one from last yr) They can help you tell your mom, and if she still isn't listening they can MAKE her.As someone who's been there done that.Gotta tell you it does get better.I PROMISE. Please get help. As you can see ther are people who care.NOW stop hurting yourself.Call one of the #s you been given or some one you think will listen.OK I'm rooting for you. I know your hurting.But you CAN do this .Tell someone now.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-14 14:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Darcy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got done reading a book, like literally 5 mins ago I finished the last page.
It was called Thirteen Reasons Why.
But it was about a depressed girl who eventually took her life.
And no one payed attention the signs and no one payed attention to her unless it was for other reasons.
So I think Ill pay attention to you. I wouldnt put anything past an 11 year old.
Tell someone. Make them listen make them hear you. Make sure they know you are serious about being depressed.
The worst people to go to are school councelors, go to your favorite teacher instead.
2007-12-14 16:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by RebelPrincess 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
There are many people with emotional pain like you. I hate to say this but, your mom is not fufilling her duty as a good parent. She's letting her love to her fiancee more than you. I suggest first going to your school counselor. You may not believe it but school counselors are trained to help AND fix your problem. You may be hesitant for some time but small steps lead to the most fufilling journeys. Maybe you should have your mom over with one of your sessions with the counselor. Hopefully, she'll notice her mistake for abandoning you like that.
2007-12-14 16:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by Outdoors Kid 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
personally, i had a shitty time with school counsellors when i was a kid but maybe the one at your school is better and good to talk to...there are also kids helplines and distress lines which can give you better information than we can and i have friends who have worked for those so i know there are intelligent, caring people there who probably have some good ideas..you have nothing to lose by making a free call and you can always ignore them if you don't like what they say
2007-12-14 16:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by morgana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her you need to talk to her about something and say how her relationships are affecting you.
she should understand because your not alone and many people are depressed like you.
music always helps for me so try to listen to music to cheer u up.
dont cut yourself thats bad. when ever you feel like cutting yourself do sumthing to take ur mind off of it.
but just tell your mum u need to talk about a serious matter with her and explain how your feeling and what youve been doing. she is your mum so will understand.
gd luck xx
2007-12-14 16:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you just have to tell your mom how you are feeling so you can get some help. If she won't listen to you, talk to a teacher at school or someone at church. Good luck to you! (((Hugs)))
2007-12-14 16:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by Slassy Girl 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're cutting yourself and that you want to see a psychiatrist. Hopefully she'll see the cry for help, and allow it.
2007-12-14 16:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by Katie G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have options
tell your mum that you are cutting yourself, have your friend explain aswell.
or
call childline on 0800 11 11 it IS free
=)
hope you get through it all okay
2007-12-14 16:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is REALLY bad!!...first tell your mom!...if she doenst belive you show her your cuts...then tell her you arnt happy!..its VERY possible for someone your age to be depressed..i know because i was and my mom didnt belive me...she just kept telling me Your too young to be depressed!!...
2007-12-14 18:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by katie y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just have to tell her.i see what u are going through.if she doesnt take it seriously try to talk to somebody else,school counselors,teachers................
i hope she'll listen to you
good luck
2007-12-14 16:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by Bonita 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋