Do you ever wonder if someone is lying to you, but you cant be sure, and afraid to ask them because you would feel stupid, but the thing they are lying about is killing you inside?
I am having a serious problem, and I really dont know how to resolve it.
2007-12-14 08:36:22 · 7 answers · asked by Erica Epidemic™ 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
yes I do, I can sort of tell when I'm being lied to and it hurts because I want to know what they are really thinking.
Just tell the person who is lying to you that you like hearing the truth when you ask a question. The absolute honest truth because you can tell when people are lying to you. also, you can't learn from you mistakes if you arent told any constructive critisim right?
2007-12-14 08:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by s2 xo Dana 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will eat you up if you don't call them out on it and ask the truth. There's also the possiblity they will lie about that. The thing to do is go to them in a casual way and ask, don't attack them or that will make them clam up and not want to talk. I have a situation of my own that I need an answer and I want an honest one. After going over it in my head I've come to the conclusion I need to know now and I will not waste my time not knowing any longer. It will put your head to rest when you find out the truth. Remember, the truth will set you free. Even if its something you don't want to believe its true its better to know then always wonder about it
2007-12-14 08:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I know that my parents are lying to me about a lot of things, but it doesn't bother me as much because I can find out almost anything by myself.
2007-12-14 08:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by Sin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well trust is an issue u must resolve so go ahead and talk to them about it dont accue but kinda ease into it
2007-12-14 08:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read this book.. it's called "Never Be Lied To Again" and it's absolutely brilliant. I learned more about people than I could've imagined. Here's the link..
http://books.google.com/books?id=NnyeSRRrDQMC&dq=the+book+%22never+be+lied+to+again%22&pg=PP1&ots=PnaWf4haaI&sig=Cf2lKYk6sFnwGgql9RLbYMHFWWY&prev=http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=The+book+%22never+be+lied+to+again%22&sa=X&oi=print&ct=title&cad=one-book-with-thumbnail
2007-12-14 08:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by Kristian K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Follow your instincts. If it quacks like a duck.....
(it's most likely a duck)
2007-12-14 08:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by Rolande 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know
2007-12-14 08:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by luv bites (so do i) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋