I cant imagine what it is like having somone to talk to every evening, whom you love dearly and have them fix your dinner, maybe take a break from it all to walk the dog, then maybe spend time together snuggling up on the couch together watching telly and then finally sleeping together.
must be really really nice, if you love that person, am i right here?
anyone here have that life?
how does it seperate from being "Single"??
2007-12-14 08:19:47 · 32 answers · asked by :) 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
NOW FOR THAT REASON ALONE, I CAN SEE WHY PEOPLE WORK SO DAM N HARD!!
THAT WOULD DO IT FOR ME, WHAT ABOUT YOU???!!
2007-12-14 08:21:42 · update #1
DESCRIBE OR EXPLAIN IT BETTER IF YOU COULD.
2007-12-14 08:22:31 · update #2
Its different and not a day goes by that i'm not FREAKING HAPPY that i'm NO LONGER married. I was married for 7 years. F that noise. They change. I don't know why but they change. Every newlywed thinks they're special. "Oh it's different, we love each other" or "We really talk". BS. We all said that while engaged. Everyone thinks they got it figured out, but they don't. The only marriages I ever see work are the ones that
1. one of the people in the marriage is basically a slave
or
2. both people are miserable but are so hopeless and pathetic, they stay together because they are scared of being alone.
2007-12-14 08:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by Hollywood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love being Married, though the actual being Marriage part doesnt bother me.
I enjoy every day I spend with my Husband, he is my best friend - the best I've ever had, we both enjoy each others company. I never feel the need for alone time, but if either of us did we can have it.
All the things you listed I love to do, nothing is better than cuddling on the sofa with him nattering or watching a movie.
Oh and being with him every night is never ever boring! and its guaranteed lol!!!!!!
2007-12-14 08:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by NIknak 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage is really great but don't confuse marriage with a fairy tale. It is hard work. Most of the time you are two totally different people with different ideas trying to merge them into one. That is not easy. It's like a really rewarding job, when things work out you feel great and other times it is the biggest pain in the ***.
2007-12-14 08:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by christina h 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i could tell you, but would you really learn anything? no,so just wait until you are married or at least with the same person for over 10 years. Oh yes there is a big difference and its not all a fairy tale. Real people, real issues, real different than being single.
2007-12-14 08:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by molly 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have the BEST answer for you ...if you find the 'right person' for you, and you marry that person, then your LIFE will be far HAPPIER and more COMFORTABLE no matter WHAT you do ... married people who are happy LIVE LONGER because they 'watch out for each other's health' more than any single person can 'watch out for him/herself.' BEWARE, though ... you must TRULY LOVE your marriage partner and not just 'be in love' with him or her ... and you must be willing to put your partner FIRST in all things, secure in the knowledge that your partner puts you first, too. Single can be 'okay' but MARRIAGE is far better than you could ever expect if you 'get it right' ...
2007-12-14 08:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by Kris L 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"Happily" Married is a myth.....stay single. You figure 50% of marriages end in divorce. How many of those 50% that are still married stay married, but are miserable...I'd venture to guess at least 25%. That's at a minimum a 75% chance of being miserable. Stay single and enjoy your space, your bed, your remote control, your own food..and just date people. Cheers!
2007-12-14 08:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by Queen of Beer 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Been married 45yrs worked hard
have a few bob, so if her indoors
decides thats it, then she walks
with half of what iv'e worked for
not a bad deal,for her?
it's not all a bed of roses mate,
you can and will survive without
being married.
2007-12-14 08:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by retired gentleman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Done properly, it's much better than single life. You finish each others thoughts, meet each others needs without having to be told, and so on.
My 1st marriage on the other hand wound up like a bad date that just would not GO HOME. I just wanted to stop the car sometimes, get out and run, screaming "OH GOD, I JUST WANT TO LIVE!!!!"
So choose wisely and well is my advice.
2007-12-14 08:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You have to remember little things like putting the bog seat back down and stuff like that. And not expecting her to "fix your dinner" all the time goes a long way to making sure she will sleep with you.
2007-12-14 08:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yup I have that and I love it---I wouldnt go back to being single for anything in the world---not nkocking you if you are single but its nice to have a built in support system and someone who you love unconditionally <3333333333333333
2007-12-14 08:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋