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I love breast feeding baby boy, but would hate to give him pcychological problems by clinging on to him long.He won't take bottles and isn't interested in powdered milk.Cups and straws work, but more in terms of play time.Bed time milk feed is what I need to get him to learn and take from dad.

2007-12-14 08:08:51 · 10 answers · asked by marooni 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Newborn & Baby

10 answers

6 months, don't worry about that yet. he will be 20 before you know it.
go ahead and pump, then have Dad give that to him at bed time then find a formula he can tolerate. then have Dad switch out and then you are off the hook.... get a bottle he will take, there are hundreds of styles....

2007-12-14 08:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by Uncle Red 6 · 0 1

The baby should be breastfed for at least one year. The baby will not have any psychological problems...trust that info. As a matter of fact, he will be healthier mind and body. You can start slowly but do not push him. Don't offer him the breast and don't refuse him. Be gradual. Change your schedule as well with him. Pump your milk so that others can feed him while you are away. His father may have to feed more so that he can get use to not being around you so much. He is not going to take a bottle from you at all. Playtex has those bottle nipples that are shaped like the breast nipple. Buy them and boil the nipple for 2 minutes and give him and the bottle to dad or other fam/friends who are willing to help you ween. He is old enough to eat cereal with his spoon so try that and baby food stage 2. Good luck!!!

2007-12-14 08:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by Diane-77 1 · 1 0

My daughter is 8 months and iv been trying to get her off breast for over 2months now. She only has bed time feed now and seems to be the hardest to get rid off.
Does ur son drink from a bottle if its expressed milk?
If so start him of like that and just forget bout formula for time being. Some babies dont know what to do with a bottle especially if they never had a soother. If thats the case then u will just have to teach him to drink from a cup and not give him
a bottle goin to bed.
He will learn to sleep without it after about a week.

2007-12-14 23:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by ollieoops 3 · 0 0

I agree with the first answer you rceived.... pump the milk for baby, and put it in a bottle. Have Dad hold him close, like you would when you nurse him, and make sure the milk is warm (at least body temp.) You could always go straight to sippy cup (Playtex makes a great one with easy-to-hold handles and a sipper that's just right for teething too), even though he plays with them now. My oldest (2 years) went right from breast to cup at 7 months. Every kid is different though.

Be with Dad the first few times when baby is getting fed; hold him while Dad feeds, so baby gets used to you both being there, and slowly, wean him off of your presence. Pretty soon you won't have a problem.

And don't worry about psychological problems. In 80% of countries around the world, mothers will breastfeed their children even past the age of 2, sometimes even as high as 5 years old. Let him decide when to wean, and it'll make things very easy for everyone.

2007-12-14 08:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by candykyss 2 · 4 0

you assert "No, no, that hurts Mommy." and not smiling or giggling or squealing, unlatch him for somewhat. he gets the photograph in case you continuously try this. it would take a pair of days. he's not too youthful to correctly standard reason and result. it somewhat is elementary. yet as quickly as you have a 'lively' reaction from his pinching, then he will proceed to do it via using certainty it somewhat is exciting observing you. Make his biting counterproductive via giving him what he least desires: being unlatched out of your nipple. And the admonition will finally be all you circulate with. Oh gosh, the human beings telling you he needs a bottle are thoroughly ignorant... if I had stopped nursing mutually as my first have been given the tooth it could have been at 4 months previous. i'm valuable that the toddlers who're nevertheless nursing have an amazing set of the tooth. On an ingredient be wakeful, if he's rather pinching your nipple in between his the tooth that shows a bad latch, via using certainty his tongue must be in between your aereola (no longer your nipple) and his backside the tooth. He could have better a lazy latch. you will be able to objective to perfect it returned.

2016-11-27 00:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

You may not manage it at all.
If the baby only wants breast milk, then he will tell you by self weaning when he is ready.
He will not be psychologically harmed in any way. Don't worry.

If you love it then carry on!

2007-12-14 09:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by ♫♪Bag♫♪ 7 · 1 0

There is this really really good bottle in a breast shape. They sell them in mothercare ? I think it is by Avent but not sure, the mothercare ladies will tell you. I used it for my son and it worked eventually. Just be patient!
However if you enjoy it carry on girl. It will stop when he wants it to. If you can carry on good on ya!
good luck

2007-12-14 08:23:17 · answer #7 · answered by squeaky 2 · 0 0

You realize that you might CAUSE psychological problems by prematurely weaning him? (Not to mention the health problems that come from premature weaning--for both of you.)

From the link below:

"One study that dealt specifically with babies nursed longer than a year showed a significant link between the duration of nursing and mothers' and teachers' ratings of social adjustment in six- to eight-year-old children (Ferguson et al, 1987). In the words of the researchers, 'There are statistically significant tendencies for conduct disorder scores to decline with increasing duration of breastfeeding.'"

In other words, the longer you nurse, the fewer social problems baby has as they get older.

There's a reason that The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends at least one year of nursing. At least.

2007-12-14 08:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by maegs33 6 · 3 1

A haberman feeder it immitates to milk flow of a breast.

2007-12-14 08:21:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Breastfeeding your baby beyond 6 months will NOT cause psychological problems. Weaning before he is ready is far more likely to cause problems.

Weaning:
http://askdrsears.com/html/2/T026400.asp
http://www.kellymom.com/bf/weaning/index.html

Extended Breastfeeding:
http://www.kellymom.com/bf/bfextended/ebf-benefits.html
http://llli.org/NB/NBextended.html

2007-12-14 08:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by daa 7 · 2 1

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