im 30 weeks & i feel like im not attractive to my bf anymore. (soon to be husband) I feel so guilty feeling that way, but i dont know how to stop feeling that way! I love him so much, but when it comes to being intimate i cant do anything with him. it DISGUSTS ME. I cant stand him at all, the whole time ive been pregnant he eats and eats and eats. I swear its like if hes pregnant not me.
anyone else go through this? i dont know how to stop feeling this way.
2007-12-14 07:52:44 · 14 answers · asked by Lils 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Ha I'm right there with you! When i feel my guy sliding my way in bed all I can think is "Oh God here we go, I hope it's quick" It's sad and I do feel guilty about it but this is my second pregnancy and It happened the first time too! Just wait until you can't have him for those 6 weeks after your baby is born, you will be more than ready! And give the poor guy a break with the eating thing! Maybe he does it because he is nervous/stressed!
2007-12-14 07:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by Cruz and Kinsley's momma 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Haha...life is so strange when you're pregnant. I never went through that 'i can't stand you' phase until I was actually in labor, but my husband did eat all the time/complain of stomach cramps when I was pregnant as if he was the pregnant one.
I'm sure with your hormones all out of whack you will have a change of heart about your man every once in a while, but don't worry-- you'll get back to loving and caring about him again :)
2007-12-14 08:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by xhorrorxwhore 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will go...you wont be interested for a while afterwards probably too.
I feel a bit gross too at the moment I am 28 weeks and the balloon stomach is just NOT sexy! He doesnt mind it but I feel like a big lump...hang in there...it took me a year to get interested agin after my last baby.
2007-12-14 07:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by Daisyhill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IMG!! Me too...I know how you feel and I feel bad about it because before I got pregnant (now 14 weeks) I couldn't resist sex with him..Now,I'm suffering from Nausea,fatigue,headaches..and everything else.
Along with my sensitivity to smells I also don't like to be touched when I'm not feeling too well...
His cologne and just smells at all make my stomach turn...He doesn't understand and I feel soo bad about it.
He also eats a ton and ALL the time..
We'll get through this..lol
2007-12-14 08:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by calebsmom85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On no, I felt completely sexy throughout my pregnancy. I'm not being a smartass either. I totally enjoyed my big belly on my small frame. I didn't walk around letting it hang out from under shirts but I did wear long tight shirts to show off my figure with my bump.
Daddy to be couldn't keep his hands off me. And the sweet admiring looks of other males...I ate it up. And believe me I'm usually the type that just wants to be ignored and not noticed, but while I was pg, I enjoyed every minute of it. I miss that feeling.
2007-12-14 08:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I completely agree. I love my pregnant body in a motherly, whiolesome way but it is not a sexy look to me. Hard to feel sexy with a bowling ball in front of you. Plus, my husband is so scared to hurt the baby that you sexlife has been a bit awkward.
I know what you mean. I have not founf a way to get over yet so thanks for asking the question.
2007-12-14 07:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by cwrayvoa 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It just a matter of time, you will soon get over it after delivery.
Don't feel this way when I was preggy and my boy will be 1 yr old on 31st Dec.
2007-12-14 08:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Pretty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AMEN!! I feel disgusting just thinking about sexual acts with my partner. I love him so much but sometimes I look at him and I just thing gross!!! I think ever woman is different during pregnancy. Some feel more attracted and more in love and others are like us and want none of it!
2007-12-14 07:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by babyonboard 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i know i have gone threw that too, i feel i hate him so much for lil things that he does, but i regret thinking and acting like that with him because he always tells me how beautiful i look pregnant and he always tells me he knows is pregnancy hormones , alot of couples go threw it but it will all get better when the baby arrives!!!
2007-12-14 08:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by Joe's Mommy...2/25/08... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i definitely feel gross all the time... i feel like since theres a baby right.. there... no one could possibly see me as something sexy and doing stuff feels so wrong.. i dont know haha i also feel frumpy 24/7 and that doesnt help either
2007-12-14 07:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋