Do they fake it so the other person doesn't feel bad?
2007-12-14 07:38:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2007-12-14 07:38:44 · update #1
My wife used to have orgasms but one or more of her medications interferes now. She still initiates love making, and I make a point of generally letting her say when, because I know how annoying it can be to be pestered for sex. She says she still enjoys the touching and caring and the penetration and my experience has been that this is true. You see, I occasionally reach a point where I can't achieve orgasm, although I am still hard. When this happens we generally continue until one of us is too exhausted for more. Then we stop and cuddle. When it first happened it was quite a worry, but since I accepted it, it has become very pleasing. The closeness and touching and feeling of being accepted in all ways is the real motivation.
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2007-12-15 01:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by balloon buster 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-11 07:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by wilabay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have an orgasm almost every time me and my boyfriend have sex. He always stimulates my clitoris. But I have had a strong sexual desire since I was 15. I didn't have sex until I was 18, so I learned what I like and what I don't for about 3 years (I masturbated for 3 years), that helped a lot. I also am in charge of most of our intercourses. He likes it that way. And we like changing positions very often. Those little things help me to climax .......
2007-12-14 07:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might have to talk with you partner and encourage more foreplay. You'll figure out this way what else besides penetration will get ya going. Try being on top this stimulates the clit. while being penetrated. It's one of my favorite positions. Try all the positions you can think of you gotta figure this out! For you! Pretty soon you'll be having multiple orgasm's. It's always fun to explore a little any way. Trust me he wont complain! Good Luck!
2007-12-16 17:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh, girl....for YEARS I didn't have one, still don't, on many occasions....but the penetration is a wonderful experience, and the other foreplay sensations.
Why are you asking?
Plus...I agree with the 'don't fake it' advise...it just seems like it's lying. I've never tried to fake it, but I just couldn't. I guess I am too honest.
If you are TRYING to experience one for the first time...I HIGHLY recommend a VERY powerful bullet. It worked for me!
2007-12-14 07:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by melsbels74 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many women fake it to satisfy the Man's ego.
But orgasm is a wonderful experience.
Find out what will make you go...
Consulting a doctor helps.
2007-12-14 07:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by girishn_blr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really explain it but I don't always have orgasms during sex but it's still amazing. It feels good no matter what and just having that close connection with the other person makes it good. NEVER fake it!
2007-12-14 07:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by Katie T 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Quite frankly I can't see how thats possible. Without the desired result the act becomes not only meaningless...but like work.
Hey...far be it from me to sound like I'm a cold fish but knowing that what you're doing is driving your partner wild with passion and making him/her feel fantastic is supposed to be stimulating as well. Plus...um...its a boost for one's ego as well.
2007-12-14 07:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that is true, so the woman doesn't let her partner down. There are still those people who can't communicate about those types of things, and what a man needs to do.
2007-12-14 08:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's that important to you, tell your partner how you like it and want it done. Y fake it or deny yourself the pleasure too? Nuff said.
2007-12-14 07:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by Brewspy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋