Take for example a female. Would you say she is bi/lesbian-CURIOUS if she's never been in a relationship with a girl, but wants to be? I don't agree with this.
If she's also never been in a relationship with a male is she bi/straight-curious?
I don't think you need to have a RELATIONSHIP with both sexes to say you're bisexual.
So are all people who have had no relationships at all straight curious, bi curious and lesbian curious all at the same time?
Are all straight people now, who are or have been in relationships, before all that were merely straight curious?
What do you think?
2007-12-14 06:28:37 · 6 answers · asked by Beletje_vos AM + VT 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I actually don't care too much about labels. But I like to think and see what others think is most accurate just for the heck of it.
2007-12-14 06:35:14 · update #1
Transgender and transsexual curious... *laughs*
I like your thoughts purple. Good points.
2007-12-14 06:43:32 · update #2
It used to be straight or gay. Black or white. Then it was straight, gay, lesbian... Okay, now red, yellow, blue. Add on transsexual, transgender, bi... sort of like getting into the rest of the rainbow... orange, green purple. Now honestly, the bi-curious, gay-curious, straight-curious... how about transgender and transsexual curious?
When you get that detailed, the oranges, greens and purples mix into a muddy mess that means nothing. Too many labels.
To label something "X-Curious" is to label thoughts. Identity is identity. Sort of like race, and what I choose to call myself. The predominent thing I identify with. But I am more than just that part of myself. Same with sexuality. Humans are inherently sexual and inherently curious. Perhas rather than all the labels, we could just be sexually curious. Or maybe, just human.
2007-12-14 06:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by purplesometimes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality is not determined by experience, it is determined by desire.
Bi-curious is what you are when you aren't sure, but you find yourself wondering what it might be like to be with a member of the same or opposite sex (remember, people who think they are totally gay can be bi-curious too.)
2007-12-14 14:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dan T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that is a crazy question...but i am in a relationship wtih a man and i love hookin up with girls..they are very very sexy..i would say that i am bi...however i could never have a relationship with a woman...it just wouldnt work out...but i love them! weird huh
2007-12-14 14:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I agree with you for the most part; you don't necessarily need to be in a relationship to classify yourself. You are what you feel...you gotta be you!
2007-12-14 14:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by Tina T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you think too much. I would have never even tried to think about this as much as you have.
To answer your question: The label is not about what the person has or hasn't done, it is about what they desire.
2007-12-14 14:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by The Eight Ball 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally dont think that there should be labels on anyone's sexual preference.
2007-12-14 14:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by dcinnabun22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋