I'm real confused on this one. Me and my fiancee are both 19 and lastnight she goes "I'm scared that someone is gonna say something that will change us." "I dont want to change."
Any ideas what this means?
2007-12-14 05:51:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe she did something that she doesn't want to come out, because if it does, you will dump her.
2007-12-14 05:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like she is a little insecure with your relationship. She feels like someone you know (friend or family) may say something to you and get you thinking about not being with her. If this is a serious relationship then reassure her that she is the one. She needs to learn to trust you otherwise the relationship will get worse........do you want to be with someone who ALWAYS needs security and reassurance from what you say. Just try to be the understanding fiancee and if she still persist in thinking someone is out to get her...then tell her you are getting turned off by her behavior and ask her why and who she thinks wants you broken up. She may have something to hide just by sounding edgy around you....maybe a friend saw something and she is hoping he/she keeps their mouth shut. Communicate with her, that is what keeps relationships flowing. Best Wishes and Happy Holidays
2007-12-14 15:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by Military Mama due 03/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she is concerned about a family member or close friend disclosing a secret she'd like to keep.
2007-12-14 13:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is feeling a little insecure about one of your guys looks or something. ???????
2007-12-14 13:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by ranger33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're both far far far too young for any relationship. Really. I cannot go any farther than that.
2007-12-14 13:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by lmspencr 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋