hmm i was thinking about this situation. couple of months back my husband was so acting crazy and i had a weird feeling that he doesn't love me anymore and he is just using me for his own visa reasons( we are arranged) so he leaves work at 4:00 pm and i get a call from his work around 30 minutes later and when i pick it up they hang up on me and i ask him he is like i idunno someone probably redialed. i felt like why would professional people redial numbers.its very doubtful. anyways then i find **** about him lying to me. now i am trying to learn how to trust him.what do u people think abt this situation?
2007-12-14 05:51:26 · 9 answers · asked by baby doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would be dubious about an arranged marriage in the first place. It's not based on love so why would you presume that he'd act accordingly? There's nothing in his HEART stopping him from cheating on you. His vows alone won't do it. If you suspect something, you need to just talk to him about it. Of course he'll probably deny it but it's important to communicate how you're feeling.
2007-12-14 05:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you think that he's having an affair at his job and you're in an arranged marriage, then immediately talk to both families.
I have a friend from your culture and he explained that there's a significantly low divorce rate because both families intervene when there's a problem.
Don't hesitate, nip it in the bud!
2007-12-14 06:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by dtown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were a fool to ever agree to an arranged marriage in the first place. Dump him and next time marry for LOVE.
2007-12-14 05:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What else was he lying about?
The first thing that came to mind, (I am a BS) is that someone was calling for him that didn't want you to know they were calling and when you picked up they hung up.
Sounds fishy to me!
2007-12-14 05:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by jessiej83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would gather up all the evidence I can and then confront him. YOu can't address a problem with out facts then if you find out things arent' right it's up to you what you're going to do
2007-12-14 05:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think "a_sexual" has it wrong. Never for love always for money you can learn to love someone!
2007-12-14 06:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by Angela M. R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear the skirt. No leggings. Wear the nevershoutnever t-blouse. OHMIGAWWDDD I LOVVEEEEE "TROUBLE"!!! It's my favourite tune! Ok. Anyway, the skirt, nix the leggings, the tee, and the AE turn-flops.
2016-09-05 15:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by malboeuf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is cheating. once a cheater always a cheater
2007-12-14 05:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by Sheree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
doesn't really sound too serious to me-relax.
2007-12-14 05:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋