My wife suggested that we work on quality sex, not quantity. So I am lucky to maybe get it once a week. I am so frustrated, she send signs that she wants to, then when it gets time to go to bed she rolls over and goes to sleep. Just do not want to get dependent on self service.
2007-12-14 05:43:37 · 6 answers · asked by Bill S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take out the trash in the morning.
Seriously, make an effort to be nice without expecting sex in return. Sex is an indicator of a relationship; if the relationship is good, the sex will be too.
2007-12-14 05:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by slinkywizzard 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i agree with slinky... sex is directly linked to passion which is directly linked with how you show your affection. If she just "rolls over" then you are probably not giving her a reason not to. Basically the effort you put in is the effort you will receive back and your efforts should come in things outside of the bedroom, short phone calls to say hi, little notes, a couple chores without being asked... I'm sure you can get creative and that will make her want to show her affection more for you in return.
2007-12-14 05:59:54 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex can't be on a set night or because you've only had it once this week,people get so set in "because we're married we should be having sex all the time"be spontaneous,buy some tasty oils,rub her down,kiss her,hold her,it will come{no pun intended}most women love sex just as much as the guys,be patient,and remember,when it happens all the time it can feel like a routine,if you hold out a little longer,it's going to be fantastic,and explosive!!!!
2007-12-14 05:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are turned on when they are "happy" with you emotionally, mentally, not physically. Selfish men have to try and get sex. There must be something that you are not doing to satisfy her. Quality would suggest that she isnt gaining enough out of just having sex. Quality would mean it isnt worth the time and effort? = she doesnt see sex as a benefit, but more as a chore so whats the point if she doesnt feel like you are doing it for her 2. I dont want to have sex unless I "finish."
2007-12-14 05:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by E.F. Hutton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find something besides treating her like a queen, putting her on a pedastal, helping with the house and the kids at all times when not at work, giving her breaks on a daily basis, taking her out whenever possible, complimenting her, doing whatever she wants without question, and being a good lover and making sure she orgasms whenever we make love please let me know. Once a week! Wow, you are a lucky man. I get it once maybe twice a month. Better get used to servicing yourself. It is the only route to sanity.
2007-12-14 05:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! im in the same boat you're in except its my man that believe like your wife!
at first we were nypmphs now im lucky to get it once a night
i feel like im being deprived myself
ive even ventured so far as to find things to spice it up a lil
i watch porn with him, i try to initiate it, ive even gone so far as to bring another female into the bedroom
we've done it before but if hes not gonna get me off, i want a woman who knows how...since being with another man would feel more like cheating? of course he's going to be involved in everything. i love the look on his face while hes....nevermind
good luck tho & dont cheat it wont solve anything!!!
2007-12-14 05:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by meallmeallthetime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wit till bed time start at breakfast>Kick start her them if possible> Leave her warmed up>Always do something to get her thinking about sex> But not finished>Keep trying make her horney> If this dosen't work> Your call on your life>
2007-12-14 05:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋