I am used to guys liking me...effortlessly, telling me I was cute etc (it's been like this for 3-4 years) ...now this guy doesn't even notice me. He's really nice. This is so new to me..I don't know what to do. I feel so sad and helpless. It's like I don't exist. I'm completely ignored. I feel like I'm going back in time, to high-school...being sad and doubfull.
Can someone cheer me up? :(
2007-12-14 05:25:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
LOL, are u in high-school people?
Let me explain this better...it just so happened that I was able to make myself liked by the few guys I also liked in the past...simply by chance not my "obvious charms" or anything...that made me kind of blind and sheltered, didn't it? So now ...that I am being ignored, I'm just pretty sad..
And I am so far from being a bi_tch..I am very shy!
2007-12-14 05:32:46 · update #1
it's MUCH more complicated...he's not a nerd but a cute, confident, rich guy..I'm pretty but I think not as confident as him and certainly not well off by his standards.
2007-12-14 05:41:43 · update #2
Just go up to him and get yourself noticed, if he still doesn't care, he isn't worth the trouble hon *^_^*
2007-12-14 05:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by TrollHunter 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At first I had the knee-jerk reaction everyone else seems to be having to you. Then I realized that you're being honest and that there is a first for everyone. People harp on pretty girls for getting everything, wishing they had more moments like these. Why harp some more when it actually happens?
I think this might lead to a nice lesson. Isn't the man's irony that pretty women (trophy wives, excluded) always end up with the ugly/nerdy guys? Maybe that's because pretty women eventually appreciate being adored for something more than looks. You might find you'll like not being judged (even if it's good) for your looks. If someone isn't attracted to the rest of you, it will help you think about the rest of you, too.
To cheer you up, there have got to be a million romantic comedies about this. Stroll Netflix or Blockbuster for a cozy night with some B&J tonight. We'll all appreciate your putting on the pounds ;-)
2007-12-14 13:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by LornaBug 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It seems that you have a high opinion of yourself because you come off like, "How could anyone not like ME". As we grow older, our world becomes larger and we experience new people, places, and things. Not all are good, and not all are bad. Sometimes, just different from what we are used to. Just because a person doesn't give you the reaction that you are used to, doesn't mean that they don't like you. If you like him, maybe you should make the first move and start a conversation with him. You may find that he does like you and doesn't know how to approach you.
2007-12-14 13:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by Bennie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel this way because of you expectations, you have always expected to noticed and now that you are not being noticed it is upsetting to you.....this will happen a few times in life. The obstacle is learning to deal with it, people have different tastes and different things catch different people's attention.
2007-12-14 13:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by kl2parker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can try!! i know it must put a bit of a downer on things for you, but you dnt need proof your cute, the rest of the past guys noticing you gave you your proof, so your cute and you know it. just beauty is in the eye of the beholder, just coz hes not into you doesnt mean your not attractive, it means you not his type, hes gay, or he has a gf and only has eyes 4 her
2007-12-14 13:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself and find some volunteer work helping others less fortunate....everyone will not always like you all of the time...that is just life...live with it.
2007-12-14 13:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its ok, ppl aren't going to like you and you are going to have to find a way to deal with this or you are going to have a very hard life.
2007-12-14 13:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Grants a tractor luvr! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dont you cheer yourself up since your obviously so full of yourself.
still..im glad you got a taste of reality....get your head out of the clouds. not EVERYONE is going to think your "cute".
able to make yourself liked? wtf????
and no, im not in highschool. are you?
so is that why youre interested in him? because hes hot and rich? serves you right....shallow gold digger.
2007-12-14 13:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by marseerocks 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Wow, don't be an attention whore. I read this thing about how girls who get all the attention suddenly like this one guy that doesn't give them any. He's either playing you or just doesn't like you.
2007-12-14 13:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
1. get over yourself.
2.your avatars ugly.
3. learn to deal.
4. theres worse things in life like disease,murder, and starvation
5. you will get over it and move on.
2007-12-14 13:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋