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hey im 14 year old male and i have a big nose everyone i first meet they comment about my nose i get teased but at the end of it when they get to no me there my friend but it is so embarrassing i cant go out without someone making horrible comment about my nose. i no this is a dumb question but is there a cream or some natural way to make my nose smaller i no the only wayy is to have plastic surgery, but i was just wondering if theres a natural way or anything i can do. if i had a normal nose like everyone that would make me feel one of them i just cant handle this the first time i came in year 7 high school iv been teased for months and when i settled in some of them stopped. i am just afraid to go to another school cause i no im gonna get teased and hurt again. and i just keep my mouth shut in front of people who i no there going to tease me or make a comment and embarrass me. my life would be 10 times easier if i had a nose like everyone els that would be my number one wish.

thanks

2007-12-14 02:48:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

thanks people for ALL your helpp made me feel so much betterr once again thankss a lottttt

2007-12-14 03:28:25 · update #1

13 answers

Sweetheart, I have a large scar on the top of my head from falling when I was two. I was teased ***relentlessly*** about it (and other things). I endured the teasing for a very looong time and my charecter grew from it.
There are somethings one can't control in one's life. The size of one's nose is one of them. The only way to make your nose any smaller is to go to the plastic surgeon and have it "done". Either that or buck it up and accept yourself for who you are. You're probably a beautiful Young Man; you just can't see it for yourself because you're going through puberty and see your nose as your most obvious fault.
Your peers have their faults as well, my Dear One. Everyone in that school has their own demons, some more than others.
I wish you well and Blessings.

2007-12-14 03:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 2 0

Well, there aren't any creams or anything like that. And you don't want it to turn into Michael Jackson's nose by plastic surgery. Therefore, the only thing you can do is walk around owning that nose. Being a teen is hard and there's a lot of pressure to look perfect or "normal." But just have confidence in yourself. And if someone makes fun of your nose, just say, "Well, at least I know what they say about guys with big noses is true." I'm sure you'll be fine! Good luck!

2007-12-14 02:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by Tue T 3 · 3 0

Hi, You've probably heard this before, but that's because it's true. Please, please don't worry about your nose and don't try any creams or surgery. My girlfriend has a large nose she was always teased about it at school and it made her feel really miserable and upset. I think her nose is beautiful, it was the first thing I noticed about her, it's a big nose, but it's who she is, she has confidence and she's learned not to be ashamed of being slightly different. I really respect that about her and I would be really sad if she ever chose to change her appearance to please other people. If people have a problem with your nose - it's their problem not yours. Hold your head up high and be proud matey. I know it's easier said than done but I promise you, you will be a stronger person if you have the courage to keep your nose no matter how big it is. Best of luck to you. Remember lots of people get bullied at school (myself included) Focus on the friends you have that love and respect you, not the idiots that have nothing better to do than try to hurt and humiliate you. All the best Jack W

2016-04-09 02:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

hey dude ...... i am feeling ya i was teased really bad a school to ..... and i no it must be so depressing for u but this is what u calling bulling and bullys only bully other people because they have no ego or self esteem so they want to bring every one else done to that same level ...... and ur nose is part of who u r and all this **** that u have to put up with at school will make u a better and stronger person in the future and next time any one says any thing about ur nose just say " DONT U HAVE ENOUGH PROBLEMS WITH UR OWN FACE TO BE WORRYING ABOUT MINE " .... hold ur self together kiddo and remember u could look alot worse !!!!

2007-12-14 04:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by []Dõ®kô_2_Pêrfé¢tïòñ 1 · 0 0

Sorry, dude. Short of plastic surgery there is nothing you can do about the actual size of your nose. You might be able to take the focus away from the nose, though, by drawing attention to another part of your face. Consider getting your hair cut differently... that often works.

Best of luck to you.

2007-12-14 03:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by Rat 7 · 2 0

Im sorry to say that there is no way to change the structure of your nose without plastic surgery... But you know what?? God created you just the way you are. Embrace what you have and love yourself. Don't let people see that it bothers you because if they do, they will never stop. Goodluck with your future and know that you are one of a kind :)

2007-12-14 03:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by **In Love** 4 · 2 0

Your life would be ten times easier if you just accepted your nose as it is.You are very young,now your nose may stand out and look funny to some,but eventually you will grow and and your face and nose will come into it's own.Even if your nose is big,some people find that attractive...just accept it,and don't listen to anyone who has anything negative to say about you.People are stupid and jealous and kids your age can be very mean,stay strong and learn to love yourself for who you are,easier said than done I know,but that is life unfortunately.Be good!!!

2007-12-14 03:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by ... 3 · 2 0

Don't know of any creams, but honestly man, you gotta start loving yourself and stop letting those low lifes at school get to you, everyone has some type of flaw, nobody's perfect. You just have to start loving yourself more and don't worry about what they have to say, and if someone just pisses you off, go ahead and punch em, it may make you feel a lil bit better! (j/k on the punching part)

2007-12-14 03:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Hi Spiro,
You may not like this answer, too bad. We are born with things that we don't like about ourselves. That's life. I carry about 15 extra pounds around my waistline and I am very self-conscious about it. When I mention that I think I'm "fat" to others, they usually say "you like fine to me" or "you look normal" etc. My point is, the thing that I'm usually the most self conscious about doesnt occur to other people. Or, I just assume people will think I'm fat because I am telling myself that....does this make sense? Now I'm going to tell you something which may be inappropriate to tell a 14 yr.old, but Im hoping that it will make you feel better, plus the likelihood exists that we will probably never meet. I think that guys with big noses are hot. Don't ask me why, but typically, in my experience, Latino, Greek(which I'm assuming you are, based on your name)Italian, Armenian men have the biggest noses...and those seem to be the type of men that I'm attracted to...and here's the kicker, especially if you don't play on "my team"...every time I mention my big nose "fetish"/obsession to a straight gf, they look at me in amazement and say the SAME DAMN THING!!! I swear, Spiro, Im not kidding...chicks think a guy with a big nose are hot, too. school is just awkward, period. Learn to focus on other aspects of Spiro that you really like, forget that plastic surgery stuff, your face isn't even done growing and changing...give it time, if you still hate it when youre 21, nip it...but know that guys like me ...and girls too...that will be bummed if you do. Peace, Spiro, you rock...

2007-12-14 03:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff B 5 · 2 1

Most likely you're simply in the "awkward" teen years... It takes times to "grow into" your facial features sometimes... don't worry... you'll be fine... I'm sure you have a great nose... My boyfriend thinks he has a big nose too.. and I think his nose is one of his best features... : P

2007-12-14 03:13:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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