God..Please why me..?

Question

i have to say. I have been trying to have a child for about 3 years now. I don't know what is wrong with me.

I got my period on November 18th. I have sex Nov 29th, 30th. And Dec 1st and 2nd.

I know those were my days.

I been getting this pain in my back for a few days.

And last night I started getting cramps. I just know I am going to get my period.

I also know because every month befor I get my period. I get alot of air up there. And it comes out all day long. Not like a fart.

I just wish it would be my turn again.

My daughter is 8. And I want her to have a brother or sister.

I just don't know.

Answer 1

use ovulation perdictors every day starting as soon as your period ends... my doc said to use them in the morning, even tho the box says afternoon. when you get a positive don't stop using them, keep using them every morning and baby dance every day that you get a positive.
after you baby dance hold your legs way way up in the air for about ten minutes... this worked for me, I miscarried with a blighted ovum at 8 weeks but we are trying again.
good luck!

Answer 2

I no how you feel, and questioning God isn't good, just have faith in him and your miracle would come threw, try not to stress about having baby #2 focus more and be more geatful for your daughter if he blessed you once he can bless you again, just believe in him he knows our hearts desire, I once use to (?) God because I have pcos and have been ttc#1 for 4 years but I realise that the more I think about it the harder I'll get, the less you think about it and try not to focus I'll happen, I wish you good luck this cycle, maybe the cramps your getting might be implantation cramps fingers cross hope thats what it be.

If your not pregnant this month try going to a gyno geting check out, after a year of trying its best to go to a specailist, many woman gets strike with second try infertility, you can get treatment for it its best to go to a gyno right away

Answer 3

After 3 years of trying and not conceiving you should see your doctor and get on a prescription of Clomid. It will help you get pregnant and probably very quickly.

Also please follow a low carb diet, or at least try it. I've seen more women conceive after going low carb that I just don't know why more women don't try it.

Once you control your blood sugar, your cycle and ovulation usually come back into balance.

So many women have PCOS and do not know they have it, or they haven't learned how to control it with a low carb diet and just a little bit of exercise.

Good luck love,

Loretta

Answer 4

Actually the best time to get pregnant is when you are ovulating.

Day 1 of your cycle is the first day of your period. day 10 approximately is when you will start to ovulate. So if you get your period on Tuesday the 11th for example, try to get pregnant 10-14 days later.

Answer 5

I'm so sorry that you have been trying to have a baby and is not happening. Can you go to a doctor and get a on a treatment. You been trying for 3 years maybe there is something wrong with you partner...

Answer 6

Calm down and take a breath. You have to look at the reality of this you had a child before right? so obviously there is nothing wrong with you. You are putting yourself under to much stress you need to calm down and leave this up to God because stress can prevent you from getting pregnant. It's the truth!!!

Answer 7

stress is a big factor. if you are really concerned about not being able to conceive again, talk to your dr. there are also over the counter fertility tests you can pick up to help pinpoint your most fertile days. good luck!

Answer 8

First of all, you have one child. Lots of women here can't even get to that point.

Second, you could always adopt one...there are a lot of kids in your daughter's age group that need homes.

Be thankfull for what you have.