2007-12-13 22:16:09 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
nope cause the trust would be gone in the relatonship.. but you have to factor in if your married to the person and if there are kids involved.. because if u have kids with the person it will be harder to call it off.. and if ur maried do u really want to throw away a marriage over someone being an idiot and sleeping around..ultimately its your choice and you should think about it pretty good before you decide to let em go or keep em..
2007-12-13 22:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by tease_ftx 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would most likely take them back. Though if I did the cheating, I would not consider myself for a second chance. Just a part of my nature being forgiving of others, especially one I might love. But when it comes to doing something so wrong, she, God and everyone may forgive me, but I cannot forgive myself. I take trust very seriously. Once lost I don't think it will ever return.
Ever think Medieval knights cheated? And their wives put them in those armor suits as a full body chastity outfit? I suppose after cheating once, something like that would be necessary to prevent it happening again.
2007-12-14 09:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by genghis1947 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i honestly don't think i can answer with yes or no. i don't have a "policy" for any decision i make prior to having all of the information.
i sincerely hope all of those who emphatically think they "don't do cheaters" are never disappointed. Those who do step outside their relationship don't wear A's on their foreheads and so a situation actually can occur never being anticipated by either party.
i can say i love as best i can, and it could include the forgiveness of a "crime" twice committed. i just don't know and only hope that if i am ever faced with it i can be fair, both to me and that horrid, evil and so not deserving of life (read sarcastically - PLEASE) "cheater" - whosoever he may be...
i'm afraid i'm a bit too old to still think that life is black and white - i find every shade of gray in almost every situation. And yet i am not indecisive, only cautious - not to bring trouble by the denial that it could exist, and knowing that NO ONE knows what they may do or not until faced with actual reality.
2007-12-14 22:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
never ever. I will never take someone who cheats on me. to me, that's the greatest love sin. i understand lovers have problems but this one, hell no. I think if you cheat on someone you're conveying a terrible message that you're useless in my life. The major reason why i despise this is the imagination of my girlfriend making love to some dude. i cannot live with that. It hurts me so much.
2007-12-14 08:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by flash 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take them back if they cheated even once. There's no excuse good enough. You either want to be with me, or you don't. If you don't then you have a mouth, tell me BEFORE anything happens.
2007-12-14 08:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
He cheats once and goes back to mama. Not second chance, ever, thank you, Mister!
2007-12-14 08:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt take them back if they cheated only one time.
2007-12-14 06:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i did once but if they can cheat once they will do it again best just to ditch them straight away it makes it far easier in the long run
2007-12-14 06:19:18 · answer #8 · answered by cat47@btinternet.com 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I did in the past, she was my wife, after all.
But that chapter is over, book closed, gently laid to rest.
And I hope for her future happiness. But know it is as
elusive to her, as peace of mind.
2007-12-14 21:47:13 · answer #9 · answered by the Punisher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More than once, no. A second chance is perhaps OK, but a third, fourth, and so on, is pointless.
2007-12-14 09:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋