I have heard that sperm dries out and dies when it is exposed to air. I was having sex with my girlfriend and I pulled out (I am not ready for kids!) and then a few minutes later she was joking around and put some of my semen on her finger and put it all the way into her vagina!! I was really annoyed but she said not to worry that she can't get pregnant as her fingers wouldn't push it in far enough. Is she lying to me? Why would she do something like that?
2007-12-13 19:13:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Thanks for the dont have sex comment.... it's a bit late now though isnt it
2007-12-13 19:21:25 · update #1
Neither of you seem to understand how badly your bodies want to make babies. It doesn't matter what your minds want to do. Your bodies aren't getting what they're programmed to want (reproduction), so now your bodies have fooled your minds into thinking you won't get pregnant from doing certain things:
1. Pulling out (it doesn't work to prevent pregnancy).
2. Putting wet semen any distance into the vagina.
These two things are your bodies trying to get around your brains and make a baby. Keep doing this, and you'll get one.
How does it feel to be an unwitting slave to your biology?
2007-12-13 23:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by helene 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pre-ejaculation still contains sperm, so even that could've gotten her pregnant. And sperm doesn't dry upon exposer to air.
If sperm even comes in contact with the vulva there is a chance pregnancy could occur.
You should suggest that she goes and gets the morning after pill. And maybe gets on some type of birth control, or you should invest in condoms.
2007-12-13 19:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mama To 3 Girls&1 Boy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if she is lying or doesn't know but yes you can most definatly get pregent that way...also you should know that i got pregent and so have about a million other people on the pull out method...yea it doesn't work, for a while it might then all the sudden it stops working. TRUST ME! also semen does eventually dry out but not in minutes. And sperm are very hard workers they will make there way all the way up even if they are just left on her panties...so i hate sounding like a sex ed commercail but wrap it up or deal with the outcome.
2007-12-13 19:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by Calia'a Mommy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol well hmmm that's pretty interesting. And yes she was lying to you, cause she can get pregnant from that. She shouldn't even be joking around like that, cause next thing you know she'll be pregnant. I don't know why she would do something like that, do you think maybe she wants to be pregnant? Either way, tell her to get on some damn birth control, or use condoms. Or both together is pretty safe. I hope you told her to not do that again though because what she did is NOT safe.
2007-12-13 19:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready for children then you should start using proper contraception like condoms... they are more effective than your current chosen 'method'. Sex may be fun but there are consequences to having unprotected sex which don't usually leave home until 18 and cost a small fortune!
Maybe you and your girlfriend should wait until you are both mature enough to enjoy 'safe sex' and not play Baby/STI Russian Roulette!
2007-12-13 19:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberley C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's highly unlikely that she could get herself pregnant this way.
What's more likely is that you got her pregnant because "pulling out" doesn't work. Pre-c*m has a very high sperm count, so coitus interruptus simply doesn't work.
As to why - sounds like she was messing with you, since you're adamant about not wanting kids.
2007-12-13 19:24:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sperm lives for a while even after being exposed to air and if it gets anywhere near where it's supposed to naturally-welcome to fatherhood.
2007-12-13 19:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by Stripe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey the pull out method doesn't work... you can still get pregnant... come on... if your not ready for kids then use a condom... or don't have sex at all... either way she can get pregnant... and yes it would be just as much your fault as hers... so don't be surprised if one day she comes up to you and says she is pregnant because you and her were to negligent to care at the time...
2007-12-13 19:24:08 · answer #8 · answered by JennyLynn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pulling out is absolutley useless. There is plenty of sperm in pre-ejaculatory fluid. If she is pregnant it would be more your doing that her putting her finger up there.
2007-12-13 19:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by FunkyMonkey 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Theres a chance. You can pull out and *** on her butt or belly button and if any just one droplet rolls into the vagina there is a small but still a chance.
2007-12-13 19:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by Preggo_Wife 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋