I am nine months pregnant, my boyfriend lives out of town ?

Question

He came here today and he is already driving me nuts! What do I do?

He drives me nuts in a bad way. Where I want him to go home. I feel like he is always right there.

This is not my first child. I was alone for my first and sometimes I feel like I wanna be alone for this one too.

Answer 1

Well... Unfortunately and surprisingly, that is a common issue. How is he driving you nuts? Things he does? Doesn't do? Says to you? Just him being there? It could simply be you prefer being by yourself or that there is just something about him that bothers you. If that is the case, you need to figure out what it is. Is he the baby's father? If so, for the best intrests of the child you need to figure out what's going on. If it's a deeper issue, therapy could be helpful. I know hearing that word probably instantly scares you, but its a good thing to talk to someone and get your feelings out in the open so you can logically and clearly work through them. Do you have plans to be together once the child is here or will he just visit occasionally? All in all, you MUST think about what is best for the child. If you have a good support system with family and friends many times thats all you need. But nothing can ever replace actually having a father figure. I say for now just try to sort through whats going on and what might be the cause of the annoyance. It more than likely is hormones. Try to get some time to yourself in a stress free sitiuation, take a nice long bath and just think. If the problem persists after the child is born, then alternate actions may need to be taken.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Boyfriends are supposed to drive you nuts. Especcially when you are nine months pregnant. Tell him. Be honest with him.

Answer 4

Enjoy this because what I would give to have had a man there with me even if he was getting on my nerves, Both of my pregnancies was by myself and my pregnancies were miserable and lonely so love this time and go make love so you can go into labor and get it over with because at 9 months everything gets on your nerves and I am willing to bet you almost everything makes you cry.

Answer 5

hahaha dont worry I think that is a normal problem hehehe I there was like a 3 month period where I wanted to throw my boyfriend over a bridge... hehehe dont look too much into it its just the pregnancy talking... trust me it feels like it wont go away but it will... keep in mind he just wants to help so try to hold in some of the bad feelings... you'll be fine... and congrats

Answer 6

You should have thought about that 9 months ago when you were driving his nuts.

Answer 7

Best thing I ever did for myself while I was pregnant (it was my first, I am 20) was go t parenting classes. They usually have them for free, and the counselers teach you to handle all kinds of stresses...plus you get to meet people who are pregnant or with new babies, it really helped me to prepare!

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Answer 8

Welcome to pregnancy. My boyfriend drives me nuts on a regular basis because we live together. But I love him all the same.

Answer 9

make sure all your stuff and your baby stuff are ready in anytime you give birth. and of course, someone will accompany you that is more important.

Answer 10

So..... tell him to stop......