i found out that i was molested as a child. and yes i know for a fact it is true. however i cant remember it even though i was about 7 .i repressed these memories for years and recently i have been having wierd dreams and wierd flashes of things that have to do with what he did to me , however it just doesnt feel real. is this how it usually feels?
please do not answer if you dont believe in repressed memories.
2007-12-13 18:16:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i found out when a parent told me . The man confessed.
2007-12-13 18:23:35 · update #1
u r having normal feelings . i am a true psychologist and deal with this alot and been thru it myself ...remember it was not ur fault and be strong enough to forgive and then u might begin the healing process
2007-12-13 18:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is so hard to answer ( very complex and in depth)... Please get counseling.. I have crazy dreams about a family member. ..Although it wasn't sexual, there was(is) some DEEP stuff going on there, because I dream of things that did not REALLY happen. Yet they mirror what I have repressed. Dreams can be a healing process, but If you do not confront them (ie:your fears), they will become nightmares.... you need counseling..
this source is only a heads up. Carl Jung was as much respected as Freud. even more so today. (it is not an easy read)..
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2007-12-13 18:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by blackpug6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely believe in repressed memory,. Your subconscious chose to block out this part of your life, but someone or something has brought it out of mothballs and now you are facing the reality. I doubt that this is abnormal, but you should get a counselor to help you talk about it.
2007-12-13 18:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by cantbeme_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are suffering from post traumatic stress disorder. I went through the same thing and if I were you I would get a hold of a good neuro-linguistic programmer. Good luck!
2007-12-13 18:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try to find who molested me...i would pray to god let him pay for what he did...i would meet a therapist so i dont ruin my rest of the life..
2007-12-13 18:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by cold kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you find out you were molested?
2007-12-13 18:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋