ok i'm confused i got married close to a year ago, my now husband moved in to the apartment i was renting when i was single, evrything inside the apartment is mine i bought it , it was there from before we got married so does he has anyrights at all over my belongings, is it ok for him to bring company without consulting with me while i'm out the house?
2007-12-13 15:00:34 · 14 answers · asked by Mariela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
all the stuff in that house that you had before the marriage is yours.. case closed.. and if your having problems.. then kick him out.. its a joint thing. if he loved you then he wouldn 't be so stupid as to bring people in the house without making sure it was okay.. my husband asks me about everything.. including bringing someone home.. even if its his best friend he'd call and say hey is it okay if ____ comes over.. because he respects me.. if your hubby don't respect you then you deserve better...
2007-12-13 15:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Alisha N 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
depends if u are still paying the rent then no he has no say so if hes paying the rent then yeah he has a say so if you are splitting it tehn u both should be considerate of each otehr that means he should know when ur doing it and you should know when hes doing it either way u've given ur space to someone else for the sake of love so sit downa dn work it out but if u all are making a team effort to pay the bills then you need to be a team in handling teh company issue as well
2007-12-13 23:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're married now, everything YOU have is partly his by marriage...if you didn't want it to be that way in the beginning you shouldn't have gotten married...Obviously you're not mature enough for marriage or a committed relationship, you act like a spoiled 12 year old.
2007-12-14 01:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you are married your stuff is his and his stuff is yours. Legally that is how it is. And if you ever got divorced that is how the courts will figure it unless you signed a prenup stating what was yours is yours and what was his is his and that is that.
And yeah, it is his house and he does not need permission to have company over. You are his wife not his mommy to grant him a playdate.
2007-12-13 23:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by celtic_princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know, they say that when you get married you become one, but its hard to think of having to share everything you worked so hard for. This is something you are going to have to talk about, or its goint to cause you so many problems. As far as having company there while you are gone, I guess the rule should apply to both of you. Be fair, set the ground rules, but make sure they apply to both of you. Good Luck!
2007-12-13 23:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by ad 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, your stuff is yours; if it was purchased before the marriage...anything after that is yours jointly with your husband. one question for you: do YOU have friends over and not ask him for permission/consultation? if so, you have no rights to be griping about him doing that, unless his friends are stealing your stuff or something else illegal is going on.
2007-12-13 23:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you two weren't soul mates when you got married!!! I guess you two didn't exactly become one!!! Good luck with the divorce.
Men, read carefully another reason you should never get married.
2007-12-14 09:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything you bought BEFORE you were married is YOURS. He has no right to bring company into your home without informing you first - but remember - he does not need your permission because as your husband - it's his home as well - he just needs to inform you.
2007-12-13 23:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Anything that each of you owned prior to getting married belongs to the individual and not the couple. Why does he need to have your permission to have company?
2007-12-13 23:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by Hotgirl 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Welcome to marriage...everything that was once your is now his as well. And unless we are talking about some female, he does not need your consent to have company.
2007-12-13 23:34:22 · answer #10 · answered by Who Knew? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋