liked a guy last year and he liked me back we kinda went out - compliacted realtionship but whatever-. so that was like last may that we mutually "broke up". Now he likes me again or at least he acts like he does. But then his 2 good friends like me too. What do i do?
We go to dance classes every week and if one comes up to talk to me the other two will follow. At the end of this dance we have free dance period and we can dance with who ever. Last week i had to talk to one of them and then he asked me to dance and right when he start dancing the other two show up. It then became really awkward.
I think one is cute and has a great personality,
Another is adorable and has an okay personality( he is my ex)
the other is cute and has a decen personality
We to the movies next friday for my bday and we are asking them all, what do i do there?? Who do I sit by and how do i act, like flirt with them al or what??
2007-12-13 14:00:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I would go with the one who has the best personality. Looks are great, but aren't gonna make a relationship work.
In my experience, going out with your ex again usually doesn't end well, because there's usually a good reason you broke up. But maybe it could be different for you.
And be careful not to lead anyone on if you're not really into them, especially since they're all good friends. They'll get mad that you hurt their friend or whatever and you'll lose your chance with all 3. Not to mention hurt him. Pick one and go with it, not flirt with all 3. That would confuse the heck out of them.
2007-12-13 14:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one who is cute and had a great personality. In the long run it is not looks that matter. Think about the high divorce rates in America, pursuring a relationship for the wrong reasons. Don't lead on all three of them on, it will just get confusing and then you will never commit (that is the whole purpose right). Don't initiate flirting, there is no reason unless you just want to play around with them. But then again I am very conservative. I am all about commiting to one person that you are compatible with and not wasting time with all the games.
2007-12-13 22:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself. If one shows that they are interested in you more than the others then go for it, if you like the guy. And about picking seats at the theaters, you pick a spot first then they will have to pick also, and you will know who is interested in you. By whoever sits beside you. You shouldn't have to flirt, the best way is to be yourself, then it will come out naturally with what you want, and the way you want it. But yeah that's about it.
2007-12-13 22:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let see, 3 gooood friends, 1 you've dated....they probably talk about a lot of stuff between them which may include you. Don't buy the "I like you too trick". You can still be friends with them, hang out, dance class and stuff but keep your guard up. Good luck girl!
2007-12-13 22:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by neilystar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you shouldn't go after any of the 3. I think it would be pretty akward since the 2 are your exes friends. I don't think it would be worth it to get back with your ex because if things don't work the first time, they usually don't work the 2nd. People generally don't change. If ya wanna go for one... I'd say one of his friends but make sure it'd be cool and your ex isn't gonna try to ruin things for you two.
2007-12-13 22:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by Lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A great deal depends on the amount of pain you can tolerate. This will not end well, it honestly sounds like the two fellows have a crush on you. My advise is to pursue friendship, get to know them better. If you find that their feelings are moving too quickly, it can become necessary to back off.
2007-12-13 22:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by wackyvorlon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a few weeks in isolation and shock therapy.. Keep away from everyone.
Then you MAY get a more intelligent point of view on things.
A Frontal Lobotomy is next...but it may already have been done.
2007-12-13 22:10:38 · answer #7 · answered by riverrat15666 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont date any of them. They are friends. They will probably start spreading ugly rumors about you. I would only be a friend to them. Forget the attraction and the personallity bid. The ex will never work if it didn't work before.
2007-12-13 22:09:12 · answer #8 · answered by springful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER EVER EVER date an ex if it didnt work out before it wont work out now.. and well sometimes you gotta break hearts honey .. i am sure who ever you dont choose will be fine, its not like there in love ...Yet. so pick whoever you can see yourself for a long time with
2007-12-13 22:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by Savanah m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of the three stooges has got to make a move sooner or later...why wait. Chose the one you really want to be with and ask him out. There, problem solved!
2007-12-13 22:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋