OK so I really liked this guy & when we finally got 2 go out, I realized that I felt shy around him & that it wasn't really working out. So 2 days after hooking up, I was ready to tell him, but he told me first. So now let's just say we're "friends" but the problem here is that I'm not over him!!!!! I don't know if he still has feelings for me but I kinda think he still does, at least a little bit.
So I have a few questions:
1. Should I tell him I still like him?
2. How do I ask him if he still likes me?
3. How do I get over him?
I'm not trying to hook up again, I just want 2 know if he still has feelings for me. So plz help!!!!
By the way my friends really hate him now cuz he broke up with me and they told me that I had to choose between being friends with my ex, or being friends with them!!!!! What do I do?
Thanks!!!!
2007-12-13 13:52:09 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ღαsнℓэч vαиэssαღ♥™ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We're both teenagers (14)
2007-12-13 13:56:26 · update #1
first, ur friends have no right to tell u to choose so screw them. and second of all being shy, you could write him a note or be brave and tell him straight up, say "i still like u, i dont want to get back together but ya, i do like u still" and then smile and walk away. its gonna b hard to get over him if u guys go to th same skool and see each other a lot so u might wana scratch that idea for now
2007-12-13 14:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kimmy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are way too young to be "hooking up". Go to school, focus on your education...boys are relationship come later on in life. It is a reason, why you can't understand it, you are way too young!
2007-12-13 13:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really isn't that you still have feelings for him... it is that you are afraid of losing a friend.. more or less... just remember that you only dated for a short period and you didn't give it a chance so it isn't unusual for you to feel this way... but just give it a couple days and then make your decision to tell him or not,,
2007-12-13 13:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask him for some time to talk about life and love, you'll learn more than asking us. If he still has hope for you, then he might be happy to discuss it.
2007-12-13 13:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋