how do i tell my man about my past?

Question

i am a recovering i.v. drug user, and ive been clean for 14 mths. i was an i.v. user for 15 yrs, and shared many needles w/ many different ppl. since ive been clean, i met a wonderful man and have been married for 3 mths. i have hep. C, and there is a good possibility im h.i.v. positive as well. i havent told him. i dont think he would be so mad if i told him, considering he knows about my past, but the thing is we are swingers, and share each other with other couples often. how do i tell him, or do i even tell him at all?

Answer 1

yipes!

that is all i have to say about that

Answer 2

I think you should tell him as soon as possible. If I were you I would tell him in a public place. You're gambling with other people's lives, not just your own.

Also, you should be tested for HIV so you know for sure.

Good Luck.

Answer 3

Why aren't you in jail? You are committing attempted murder every time you have physical contact. Assuming you are for real, you are poison to people.

Answer 4

High risk behavior knowing you're HIV positive is criminal.

Answer 5

stop swinging and be honest with your POTENTIAL sex partners before you have sex..... GEEEZ everyone deserves to be informed of a risk.... and there is a significant risk here. Stop Swinging!

Answer 6

jeez...I think that you should tell him. I think he would be glad to know that you were being honest with him, and appreciate it. But it is totally up to you. Good luck! : )

Answer 7

You "love him" and you kept that from him!??????????????? Geeezzzz you are sick and i totally agree with the previous poster-what you are doing is criminal.