Last night I had a dream that my boyfriend left me at the alter, and no one could find him. Now, he always gets a little antsy when ever any of our friends get engaged, but I had that dream , and it bothered me. Anyway, I asked him today if someone offered to pay for a wedding, EVERYTHING, but we had to get married in a few months or so, would he go for it. He said no, and that he wouldn’t be ready.He wants to wait.
Understand that we are both in college, and that we have been dating for four years. I guess I don’t understand why I feel so crappy about it now.Plus he's mad at me for bringing it up.Any ideas about why I feel so crappy?
Thanks.
2007-12-13 12:48:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think that maybe you realize that he may not be the "marrying kind"--or that he just isn't ready now!! Go on with your own educational goals; keep the relationship as it is. if you wish; get your degree and get into work that you LOVE; and then you can decide whether or not you want to wait for him or go find someone else who appreciates/loves you!
2007-12-13 13:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by Martell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋