Do you ever wonder how some people can be so happy... or are you part of those so called "Happy People"...

Question

*crickets chirping*

Answer 1

I'm not a "Happy People". Normal happy people are boring, but I do wonder how the heck they just seem to always get what they want out of their life. Sometimes, it like it was just handed to them! I've gone back to college three times... had cancer and surgery, moved 3 times in 5 years, and I generally feel like I'm going to go insane working with my happy peppy colleague, who has her nose in the air and always tries to one-up me, even though I am overqualified for my position. life is so screwed up lately.... but I'm determined not to let it bring me down!

Answer 2

Ya know...it takes a long long time of hard hard times to finally realize what is important in life. If I told you what our family has gone through, you'd be shocked. But ya know, I smile and am usually happy as a rule (an no, I have no money and I'm 49)....it's the fact that you finally need to realize there ARE good things in your life (everyone has bad times) - everyone isn't happy all the time, that is for sure. You learn to live with what you have, appreciate what you have regardless how SMALL it might be. Once you get to that point and not try to compare yourself to others' you can be happy too. Once you also accept yourself as a good person, that works too. We ALL get down every so often but like the saying goes "sometimes the world puts you on your back in order to make you look up" and no, I'm not a fanatic of any kind whatsoever.

Answer 3

Yes, sometimes I do wonder how some people can be so "happy"... especially those people who have gone through so much suffering and yet they keep their head up. I've gone through my share of traumatic experiences, but it's nothing compared to those of other people... they just cope so well. But maybe when I am older, and hopefully wiser, I will learn how to cope as well. I'll probably never be one of those "happy people" but I can be content enough to enjoy my life. Or something...

I like many of the answers you got here... good stuff :)

Answer 4

Yup ! I am, one of the happiest people, if not the most happiest alive. :o) Cheers, Its really all about being contended with what you have, and work really hard for what you want to have or don't have. Sad people are mostly the people who are not contended with what they have and don't know what to do to achieve for what the dream about but don't do anything to achieve it, hence the discontent and sadness, they have no one else to blame but themselves for it.
SMILE, and the World Smiles with you.
Happiness my friend is a phase of mind, and how I understand it, its you who decides whether you want to go through life being happy or being sad, so take you pick and work accordingly.
Smile and everybody will wonder what you are upto ;o)

Have a nice day, I wish you every happiness in the world. Take care and God bless you.

Answer 5

Yes, I am the type that smiles all day long, and laughs alot, tells strangers to have a good day on the street, gives free hugs, and makes children laugh.......

happy happy happy joy joy joy

and as soon as I get alone.. I am not smiling anymore..(unless the soup is on) what is there to smile about when your alone? I don't know....
so everyone who thinks I am one of those happy people hardly see me sad.. but I get sad often, I am sad right now...

Answer 6

I always smile, when I see someone, even if it's someone I do not know. When I see someone I know, my smile comes from deeper down in my heart, because love is added to the smile. I do not smile because I'm strong and healthy and others aren't. I do not smile because everything is going my way. I do not smile, because I have no pain. I smile because you're a person, you're human, and your presence makes the world a better place, and I'm glad you're here.

At night, when I'm alone, that's when I weep. I weep when I remember my dearest friend, who suffers, and I can do nothing to help her. I weep, that I cannot share my good health, with those who are hurting. I weep, because there are so many lonely, hurting people out there, and I have nothing to give. Just my cheesy smile.

I also weep for myself because people tend to think I have no problems, and are more ready to share their problems with me, than they are to listen to mine. But I've been greatly blessed. Two years ago, I found a friend who listens, and knows me inside out. And because of that, I can listen to others and not cry for myself anymore. Ah, that gives me more to smile about. A friend who truly cares. =) I'm sorry I cannot share him with you... =( I hope you, too, will find one true friend, who truly cares.

Meerah.

PS - just to clarify - I'm not talking abour a romantic friend - I'm talking about a true friend. Romance isn't always true. It's usually just entertainment. But that's another story... =)

PS again - I forgot the most important reason for why I smile. If I didn't, you'd die of fright. The grotesqueness of my face when it wears a frown, or a scowl, or hate, is indescribable. The intense annoyance that can be triggered by a blank and dumb stare, isn't good for your stress levels. Therefore, the least offensive of all my faces, is the one with a smile. =)

Answer 7

I am a happy person. I just can't help it! I see the positive in everything. I try not to be annoying though.

Answer 8

I am happy, because I met u! It is a good day everyday I get 2 answer ur q!

Answer 9

Even apparently "Happy People" can have demons that no one sees. I seen people who had everything going for them, a wonderful life who commit suicide. So people who look happy may not really be.

Answer 10

I'm the annoying Happy person