my friend is 36 years old and married for 7 years she still virgin. she is afraid to be hurt because she knows that loosing virginity is painful, how can we help her. they tried many times but shes always nervous. we need to help her .can u give some advice for her?
2007-12-13 12:07:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is about you isnt it? You are a teenager and you want advice. Wait till you are married and everything will work out. Your body will accommodate you and it will be fine.
2007-12-13 12:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by heartsarebad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well seems like a joke because what happened on their wedding night? Nothing? But maybe if she gets some oil and lubricates herself and him so it would go better without no ressticitions. But maybe a little wine or chamapagne will help too to relax her.
2007-12-13 12:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by John S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to be totally relaxed. Maybe a bubble bath, a massage and a lot of wine. She should just go with the flow. Maybe she can try being the one on top so she is the one in control and can go at her own pace.
2007-12-13 12:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the hell?
I think that if I were husband I would be highly upset. Does she know that it is okay to have sex after marriage? Her husband is probably seeking satisfaction else where. The only advice is that she needs to stop worrying about how painful it will be. Period cramps are more painful then that.
2007-12-13 12:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
um men usually have heart attacks if they dont get sex every 4 hours so kudos to whoever shes married for sticking by her. uhh but who knows how long the husband will wait, not that sex makes up a marriage........
2007-12-13 12:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This reminds me of a song by Xibit; "Drugs and Alcahol". Not that i condone it, but she needs to loosen up.That woman would not be my wife for very long.
2007-12-13 13:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by Dirt broke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to go to the gynecologist!!! They can help her with this problem!!! I don't usually encourage drinking, but perhaps a little wine would help!
2007-12-13 12:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not tat painful...that cant be the only reason....theres a condition, some people have it, its a fear of having sex for some reason or painful memory, i think she should see a doctor or psycologist about this.....
2007-12-13 12:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by Sony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might want to try pleasing herself first!!! Get her a toy & tell her to get after it! To over come a fear is to face it head on...
2007-12-13 12:10:23 · answer #9 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't help her....she needs to see her doctor and get some referrals.
2007-12-13 12:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋