in my previous questions i mentioned the fact that all of my "friends" hated me except for one, Jaya. today at school jaya wasn't here, and i passed shay (one friend who hates me) a note that said "if you don't want me to hate you, then why do you keep talking about me to jaya?" at recess, steve (shay's boyfriend) was being a messenger for shay and he said something i can't remember and i was just like "she started it!!" and he went back then he came back and said that shay wanted to know how this was her fault and i said " even if ur mad at your best friend, you don't talk sh*t about them behind their backs" and steve wouldn't tell me what shay said. so at the end of the day, steve was trying to convince me to say sorry, and i said "you can tell her i'm sorry she's a b****" and then at safety patrol dune (my friend, i'm not sure if she hates me) said that shay was mad at jaya cuz shay didn't say any of that, which is bull because she already confessed that she said it
2007-12-13 10:38:37 · 17 answers · asked by zeldahett 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i got cut off. becuz she was mad at me. see? here's the email:
i said those things because i was mad. it hurt me when u wrote the note that said " Jaya wouldn't lie to me, unlike u, she loves me". no i don't hate u. if u don't want to be friends any more, fine. It's up to u. Ill support your choice no matter what.
Shayla:)
what should i do?????
2007-12-13 10:40:04 · update #1
Now jaya hates me cuz i made shay mad at her!!!!!
2007-12-13 10:43:32 · update #2
You might try just keeping your distance for a few days. Try and talk to some new people that maybe you haven’t talk to before. Eventually your friends will probably come to the their senses or someone else will upset them and then you’ll be off the hook. Try and remember that through out your life you will make new friends, you will have friends who will be friends through your life time. Then you will have friends whom you’ll be friends with during certain periods of your life, sadly some friendships do end.
2007-12-13 10:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get them together and open up---speak to one another be honest and tell them how each has purpose or value in your lied and that you have no intention of hurting your friends; and never ever talk about a friend behind their back even if you are talking to a best friend since they can share this information and that other friend will share it with someone that does not care what happens to you and your friends.
2007-12-13 11:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by Lifeline 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh goondess! you hate your life over a couple of people, geez the only time i would hate my life is if my parents died or someone i loved died, or if my house caught on fire and i lost everything, but two friends???????!!!!!!
try and get them in a group and just solve this silly elementary thing out. and saying all those nasty things back just made things worse, you should have just been humble and maybe this shay girl would have felt bad but instead she turned your other friend against you
2007-12-13 12:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys even if she's under 13 you have to go easy on her. she may be having a really hard time in her life right now and just needs help. sticks and stones may break her bones but words can make her kill herself.....be careful what you say to people you just might hurt them way more than you intended
2007-12-13 12:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Just get all your friends at talk to them alone and tell them you love them because deep down you do, also on my address bar question I did the things you said and it didn't work!!
2007-12-13 13:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by (MRS. NiCHOLAS JONAS.) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you have reccess? And how do you have the safety patrol.
Im thinking your in elementary school still. I think your a little young for yahoo answers.
2007-12-13 12:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by Baby is finally here!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon friends aren't people that hate you, if they treat you like that then you need a new group of friends.
2007-12-13 10:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
how the hell can you call them your friends when you say that they hate you. those aren't friends. grow up and stop feeling sorry for yourself and stop trying to make others feel sorry for you. get a real life.
2007-12-13 10:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by outta~this~world 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you have recess, then you must be in elementary school. If are in elementary school, you must be under 13. Please remove this question. Nobody wants this drama.
2007-12-13 13:01:14 · answer #9 · answered by Erica 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
recess, i stoped recess in 5th grade, at age 11, thats under 13, get off Y!A
2007-12-13 10:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋