2007-12-13 10:37:55 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Hello Gloria! Well I am sorry to hear of a broken heart especially at this time of year. I don't know the whole situation but sometimes a broken heart turns out to just be some time apart....which sometimes leads to a stronger bond of love. But sometimes it truely is the end of a relationship...is it your fault? Probably not...his? perhaps...or the true tester of love, time, has come to a head and it is different directions. This is of course coming from a 31 year old guy that deals with heartbreak now diffrently then he did even 3 years ago. In my younger days I would cry, drink, lean on my friends, go out and find a new 'buddy'...kind of like putting a band-aid on a fresh cut. Well you know that after a while the band-aid is no longer of use to you because the cut has healed. Well with each heartbreak I would also increase my guard of who I was with..not letting them in all the way so easily. That works to keep your heart safe but then I think of what may have passed me by because of that wall I had put up. I have been with my current g/f for about 6 months. I am happy, she is happy and everyone loves her etc etc. I just want to take it easy and make sure it is the real deal. What I am saying to you Gloria is that a broken heart sucks but have faith and know that everything truely does happen for a reason even though you may not see it right now....somewhere between your friends, going out and learning from this experince your heart will mend and be ready to love again strong as ever.
Merry Christmas to you and yours and God Bless!
2007-12-13 10:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by Bazzo76 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-05 21:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no remedy's for a broken heart. Best way to get over someone is to make yourself busy and not think about as much. Only time can mend the way feel. Just trying going with your friends more often. That should keep you occupied.
2007-12-13 10:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by tiki_bo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ah, The Eternal Question...
Time. I know that so many other people have said it, but it's true. Everything happens for a reason. Something good will come out of it eventually. In the mean time, focus on other things. Do things that you enjoy doing, socially, and make new friends, get together with old ones, introduce new friends TO the old ones, and before you know it, you'll have gotten over anything that caused your broken heart, the broken heart will be healed, and ready to go again.
2007-12-13 10:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Rose Willow 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keeping your mind off the person who broke your heart reading fiction, creative work, focusing on others for as long as you can helps. I usually get obsessed and talk the thing to death myself. That helps too but it wears everybody out who has to listen to you. You always have to work the stages of grief no matter what you do. Just remember that in a long stretch time, it won't hurt so much and you'll be able to love again even if that love is different than before. Also, don't let your self-esteem get too corroded or you will lose hope. Just because you got dumped doesn't mean you're an unloveable person. You're just going through a rough time right now. It will get better.
2007-12-13 10:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is but of course it depends on what broke your heart. Some things are easier to get over than others.
Of course time is a great healer, but there are lots of things you can do to get on the road to recovery. Get up and out of the house, call friends you haven't seen in awhile, keep busy, go shopping, get a new hairstyle, try some new makeup, take an exercise class.
Be kind to yourself and know that everyone goes through hardships at one time or another in life. People do cope and so will you. Stay strong.
Jazzy
2007-12-13 10:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Jazzy 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Time, finding a passion such as a hobby, family, and friends.
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Today Thursday, 13 December 2007 would had been the 10th wedding anniversary of
Angela Margaret Cisneros
(US Grant High School "Lancers" Eternity Class of 1989)
and
Max Rafael Waller
(San Fernando High School "Tigers" Les Prestigians Class of 1983)
Their matrimony
Saturday, 13 December 1997-Tuesday, 12 September 2000.
2007-12-13 10:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by American Dissenter 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
TIme. Give your self abundant time to move via the motions of having over a damaged center. You must take a deeper appear within your self and spot the well in you. You must gain knowledge of to pat your self at the again every now and then and do certain matters only for your self. Now is the time you ought to be a bit egocentric and love your self extra. You understand the historic pronouncing, "Time Heals All Wounds". Be well to your self. Seek out the remedy and companionship of well peers. Love your self a bit extra.
2016-09-05 12:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-13 10:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by Ken O 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well...I guess it depends on the person. Some people can get over it really fast and some people can't. Usually it takes time to get over a break up. It took me 9 months to get over my first boyfriend and now i can't get over my other ex right now. What I do is just try to forget about them (which is hard if you go to school with them :[ Try flirting around with other guys...sometimes that can make you feel better. Sitting around moping about it isn't gonna make it any better. You gotta get out there and try to forget about him to make things better.
2007-12-13 10:42:47 · answer #10 · answered by Shepard Lover 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋