How do you think they made these opinios.
2007-12-13 10:29:22 · 15 answers · asked by Yoboking 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
That I am a complete *****, and to tell you the truth, I am a really cool person.
People at work are always catty, talking about each other, and I walk away, so now I am a snob, no , I really dont give a rats *** about 1 person there, I am there to make money, I have enough friends.
I am cold.... I am a very warm person, I just say it the way it is..... ask me a question, expect my truth, no holds barred... not going to apologize, you asked.....
I love me and I really dont care what anyone thinks. the only person I care about judging me is my maker!!!!
2007-12-13 10:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Rhonda 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
One opinion that really made me wonder was a rumor that was going around my work that I was an alcoholic and had lost my driver's license. They had decided this because I didnt have a car and had to ride the bus. The truth was I owed the IRS a lot of money and the only place I could cut corners was by selling my car and using public transportation. When I found out what the rumor was all about, I sent to the DMV for my driving record, which had one moving violation from back in 1957. I posted it in the staff lounge and I never heard that rumor again. I still have my driver's license and to date, have not become alcoholic. What is that thing about assuming?
2007-12-13 18:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by phlada64 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Your question implies inaccurate negative opinions. However, inaccurate positive ones can be bad too...
I have a tendency to carry myself in a manner that gives people the impression that I am alot more capable, intelligent, and dynamic than I really am. Makes people have higher than average expectations for me.
So, when I perform overall about the same as everyone else in the same situation, while they get kudos, I get treated like I've dissapointed everyone somehow. People are always looking to me for leadership and solutions, and I really don't know why. I'm just an average guy.
It's actually lead to some problems in relationships and jobs. It's never really good when people often feel like you've let them down, even though you've done nothing wrong.
2007-12-13 18:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by lmn78744 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm white so
-I must have no butt
-I can't dance
-The only language of my ancestors is English apparently.
-I should be blamed for slavery, and since I'm German, for Nazism.
-I must be rich.
-It's easy to get into my pants.
-I must be racist.
-Authentic food of my people must be burgers and fries.
-I don't know what a hard life is like.
Yup, I'd say those are a few opinions people make of me, but generally based on my race.
Oh, and I'm blonde so I must be uneducated.
I'm 19 and pregnant, so I must be a high school drop out single mom who can't keep her legs shut.
All are very far from the truth, but they're what people throw at me almost every day! I could go on and on. lol.
2007-12-13 18:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy2Be 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
That I'm a good person and that I'm caring and compassionate. That I'm honest, trustworthy and loyal. I act that way in the workforce and in public. But, hey the freaks come out at night right?
2007-12-13 19:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by N_Quizitive_1 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That i'm lazy and also that i don't care, many perceive my laid back persona as not giving two sh**s, not true!
...it seems if you don't seek attention then your not hurting or have no problems... obviously an ignorant view but most people are, i can deal with other peoples judgements..if their shallow enough to make them, then their not the kind of people i like mix with anyway! :D
2007-12-13 18:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by Trish W 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Many think I'm snobbish just because I don't have too much of a social life. I rather be at home but it doesn't mean I don't like other people.
2007-12-13 18:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by Millie 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
people thinks that i have anger management. however, they judge that when we're together in a group work, and i do MY work but they DONT.
they made these opinions because i snapped at them; bugging them to actually do their work and to concentrate. i also threatedened that if they dont do their work, i'll tell the teacher, and i do. so they think i have anger management which is totally false. i get angry for good reasons and i seldom get angry for small downfalls.
2007-12-13 18:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
People have thought that I was conceited or uppity. I am nothing like this, but I am very reserved and don't trust others easily.
2007-12-13 19:14:23 · answer #9 · answered by fun_purple_beach 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, at work, they think I'm anti-social. Why? Because I go in everyday and actually do my work instead of gossiping about people and screwing off.
2007-12-13 18:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by emmie8750 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋