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I have been asked to lie in court about something that I know for a fact isn't true.. and I just cannot do it. Am I doing the right thing? I already sort of told a white lie by telling the defendant's attorney the lie but I didn't know I'd be supoenaed to tell this lie in front of a judge and God! So, I'm going to go to court and tell the truth.. What would you do? Am I going to get in trouble for lying to the attorney in the first place?

2007-12-13 09:51:39 · 8 answers · asked by Meaghan H 3 in Family & Relationships Friends

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If you lie under oath and caught, you will be tried for perjury--meaning jail time. You should not lie under oath unless you're willing to take this risk.

Personally, I would question my friendship with a person if they want me to go to such extremes.

2007-12-13 09:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Tell your friend you cannot lie for her. If she really cares about your friendship she won't put you in this position. Call her attorney and tell him that she had urged you to stretch the truth for her and you don't feel you can get on the stand and lie. Ask him if your statement can be withdrawn. He will probably not bring up the fact you lied to the judge because it would look bad on her side. For the attorney's sake don't get on the stand and immediately change your story, it will make him look bad. Let him know in advance!

2007-12-13 17:59:03 · answer #2 · answered by daeraelle 3 · 1 0

Yes you are doing exactly what you should. If your friend wants you to lie for them in court to keep them out of trouble and possible put you in trouble I wouldn't consider them much of a friend. You need to go to court and tell the truth because if you lie under oath and they find out about it then you are in big trouble and are facing a trial yourself. I would tell the truth and the whole truth. You shouldn't get into trouble with the attourney situation because you weren't in court at the time.

2007-12-13 17:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You need to tell the truth in court, otherwise YOU are committing a crime, and YOU could go to jail. It is called "perjury". There are no white lies in court. You need to come clean about what you have already done, or you will be in deep do-do.

2007-12-13 17:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0 0

You cannot lie in court. its called perjury (dont know how to spell it) but its a federal crime! Dont do it! You can get in serious trouble, no matter how old you are! Just tell your friend you're telling the truth.

2007-12-13 17:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by NiCoLe i love my Chi cena! 4 · 0 0

never, i wouldn't risk it. you will find yourself in court for lying under oath.

2007-12-13 17:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by tmcblue 3 · 0 0

depends on how close u r . if really close then lie for her

2007-12-13 20:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by Corrine B 2 · 0 0

Praise be to Allaah.

Being truthful means speaking the truth and also saying things that reflect reality.

Being truthful is one of the necessities of a human society, one of the virtues of human behaviour, and brings great benefits, whilst lying is one of the major elements of corruption in human society, and the cause of the destruction of social structure and ties, one of the most evil features of bad conduct, and causes widespread harm. Hence Islam commanded truthfulness and forbade lying.

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“O you who believe! Be afraid of Allaah, and be with those who are true (in word and deeds).” [al-Tawbah 9:119]

Ibn Katheer (may Allaah have mercy on him) said (2/414): “It means: be truthful and adhere to truthfulness, and you will be among its people and will be saved from calamity, and this will make a way out for you from your problems.”

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“… if they had been true to Allaah, it would have been better for them.” [Muhammad 47:21]

‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘You must be truthful, for truthfulness leads to righteousness and righteousness leads to Paradise. A man will keep speaking the truth and striving to speak the truth until he will be recorded with Allaah as a siddeeq (speaker of the truth). Beware of telling lies, for lying leads to immorality and immorality leads to Hellfire. A man will keep telling lies and striving to tell lies until he is recorded with Allaah as a liar.” (Reported by Muslim, 4721)

This hadeeth indicates that truthfulness leads to righteousness (al-birr), an all-embracing concept that includes all kinds of goodness and different kinds of righteous deeds. Immorality is basically an inclination towards deviation from the truth, and the immoral person (faajir) is one who is inclined to turn away from the path of guidance. Hence immorality and righteousness are diametrically opposed.

Al-Hasan ibn ‘Ali ibn Abi Taalib (may Allaah be pleased with them both) said: “I memorized from the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): ‘Leave that which makes you doubt for that which does not make you doubt, for truthfulness is certainty and tranquillity, whilst lying is doubt and confusion.” (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, 2520; al-Nisaa'i, 8/327; and Ahmad, 1/200)

In the lengthy hadeeth of Abu Sufyaan describing his meeting with Heraclius, Abu Sufyaan (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “[Heraclius] said, ‘What does he [meaning the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him] command you to do?’ I said, ‘He says: worship Allaah alone and do not associate anything in worship with Him, and abandon that which your forefathers did. He commands us to pray, to be truthful, to be chaste and to uphold the ties of kinship.’” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, 1/30 and Muslim, 1773).

Hakeem ibn Hizaam (may Allaah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Two parties to a deal have the option of changing their minds until they part; if they are open and honest, their deal will be blessed, and if they conceal and tell lies, the blessing of their deal will be diminished.” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, 4/275 and Muslim, 1532.)

Truthfulness includes being truthful towards Allaah by worshipping Him sincerely; being truthful towards one’s own soul by making it adhere to the laws of Allaah; and being truthful with people in one's words and by keeping one's promises, and in dealings such as buying, selling and marriage, so there should be no deceiving, cheating, falsifying or withholding of information. Thus a person should be the same on the inside and the outside.

As regards lying, it is highly forbidden, and is of varying degrees of abhorrence and sin. The most obnoxious form of lying is falsely attributing things to Allaah and His Messenger, because this involves fabrication about the religion and is an act of outrage against Allaah. Hence one of the characteristics of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) is that he truthfully conveyed that which Allaah commanded him to convey. So Allaah said (interpretation of the meanings):

“… who does more wrong than one who invents a lie against Allaah, to lead mankind astray without knowledge. Certainly Allaah guides not the people whi are zaalimoon (polytheists and wrong-doers, etc.)” [al-An’am 6:144]

“And who does more wrong than he who invents a lie against Allaah? Such will be brought before their Lord, and the witnesses will say, ‘These are the ones who lied against their Lord!’ No doubt! The curse of Allaah is on the zaalimoon (polytheists, wrong-doers, oppressors, etc.).” [Hood 11:18]

Equally bad is lying about the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), as he is reported to have said in the mutawaatir hadeeth: “Whoever lies about me deliberately, let him take his place in Hell.” (Agreed upon).

The basic rule with regard to lying is that it is not permitted, but there are certain circumstances in which Islam permits lying to serve a greater purpose or to prevent harm.

One of these situations is when a person mediates between two disputing parties in order to reconcile between them, if reconciliation cannot be achieved in any other way. Um Kalthoom (may Allaah be pleased with her) reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “He is not a liar who reconciles between people and conveys something good or says something good.” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, 2495).

Another example is a man’s speaking to his wife, or a woman speaking to her husband, with regard to matters that will strengthen the ties of love between them, even if that is accompanied by exaggeration. Asma’ bint Yazeed said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘Lying is not permitted except in three cases: a man’s speaking to his wife to make her happy; lying at times of war; and lying in order to reconcile between people.’” (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, 1862; he said: it is a hasan hadeeth. See also Saheeh Muslim, 4717).

One of the most important forms of both being truthful and lying is in the area of promises and covenants. Being truthful in promises and covenants is one of the characteristics by which the believers are known. Both promises and covenants involve saying something about an issue to confirm that you will do it, especially with regard to one's duties towards Allaah. Allaah says, praising some of His slaves (interpretation of the meanings):

“Those who are faithfully true to their amaanaat (all the duties which Allaah has ordained, honesty, moral responsibility and trusts, etc.) and to their covenants.” [al-Mu’minoon 23:8]

“… and who fulfil their covenant when they make it…” [al-Baqarah 2:177]

“Among the believers are men who have been true to their covenant with Allaah [i.e., they have gone out for jihad (holy fighting), and showed not their backs to the disbelievers], of them some have fulfilled their obligations (i.e., have been martyred), and some of them are still waiting, but they have never changed [i.e., they never proved treacherous to their covenant which they concluded with Allaah] in the least.” [al-Ahzaab 33:23]

We ask Allaah to make us sincere and truthful in word and deed. And Allaah knows best.

Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid

2007-12-14 18:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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